I had to separate from my husband to prove to myself that I could do things on my own, and actually thrive more on my own. He was actually bringing me down because he was zero help and also expected me to do everything PLUS he made more work for me. When I left him it made him realize that I didn’t need him as much and he stepped it up a lot. We ended up getting back together and he’s been a lot better, but he definitely needed that reality check.
I’ve threatened to leave but haven’t done so. maybe i should 🤷🏾♀️ he afraid for me to leave him so it might work
Your doing the role of a single parent at this point hes acting like a babysitter
Im not sure how to help with that. My ex that did that got the boot I didn't work 15 hour days just to do everything myself so i left him
It really took a lot for me to make the decision to leave him. It caused a lot of strain with the in-laws too, and they were the ones who helped me with watching my daughter while I was at work. But it really turned things around. He thought I would never leave and that I couldn’t handle things on my own. Good luck! Either way, you got this!