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Am I overfeeding my baby with solids

Hi ladies How much solid food are you giving your baby? Mine is 6 months old now. I’m breastfeeding and she nurses well, but I’m also giving her solids. Her poop has changed a lot. I’m not sure if I’m giving her too much solid food, but she really wants to eat. Today, for example, she had 2 spoons of mashed banana...

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Nappies vs nappy pants

Has anyone else started using nappy pants instead of normal nappies? Nappy changes are becoming a nightmare with my 9 month old as he rolls over/flails around and tries to crawl away while you're changing him and it's very difficult to distract him. I'm wondering if nappy pants might make it easier to change him? He...

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Nursery

Hi! So my son is 3 and goes to nursery for 3 days a week. 30 hours total. We get the 30 hours funding but still have a huge bill. Don’t get me wrong we expect to still pay but it seems extortionate. I’m just trying to see what other people pay with the funding? It’s stretched so he only gets 24hrs a week funding. If...

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8 month old gone off her food

My 8 month old usually eats 3 meals a day, purées and finger foods. She has gone off her food the last few days, and spits out everything that we offer. I have even tried to do a bit of blw to see if she is ready for that and it’s no different. Has anyone else had this? Shes well in herself and doesn’t have a cold o...

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Advice

I got dropped as a client today by my therapist due to lack of childcare so I brought my daughter with me to appointments so she said no I'm not doing it however my last therapist at the same place let me bring my daughter along as she knows I have no support network or childcare. I now don't know what to do because...

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Break up

Is anyone going through a break up currently with their partner ? I’m having a lot of issues with our relationship at the moment in the fact that he has chosen to have nothing to do with his kids with a previous partner, he is hard to live with in terms of cleanliness and laziness, he has told me a lot of little w...

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4 month feeding amount

How much and how often are your 4 month old babies feeding? Thank you :)

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Lunches when out

What’s everyone giving their little ones for lunch when out on a day trip?

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Free things to do with baby

Looking for any ideas of things to do with my 13 month old son currently in queens relocating to Bensonhurst in the next couple of weeks. Would love mommy and me classes I desperately need friends as we just moved here from Virginia also don’t have to be free I’m open to any suggestions to get out of the house.

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How much does your little one eat day to day?

My daughter is naturally petite and short for her age. She is a snack monster! And isn’t particularly fussy but I’m just wondering if she eats enough for her age or should she be eating more. I’m fairly strict that if she asks for snacks before 10am it’s only fruit which luckily she loves. Today so far she’s had: Br...

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Hunger cues ?! (BF baby).

My son is nearly 11 weeks and i have no idea what his hunger cues are any more! He recently learned how to chew his hands, so now i don’t know if it’s a hunger cue or just him practicing chewing them (he will do so even after a feed - so i know he does it even when he isn’t hungry). I am currently just feeding him...

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Am I overreacting

Me and my partner have been together 13 years we are still not married yet as he says he can’t be bothered we have three kids together and some weekends it’s usually just me and him child free so I say to him do you want to go out get a few drinks play pool or something just to go out and do something couples do as ...

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Nursery!!

How the heck am I supposed to be okay with this? Like I only trust a small handful of people to mind my boys & this is knocking my mind so much. It’s my first borns settling session today & then he’s doing a full day on Friday & i am UNWELL about the whole thing 😵‍💫 I know he’s going to love it & hes going to…

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12 month old still mainly spoon fed?

Anyone else’s 12 month old still spoonfed the majority of the time she’ll have like a snacks like crisps and smoothie melts and like a few chips and like nuggets here or like finger foods off my plate but not as like a full meal just a snack on is anyone else’s 12 month old still spoonfed? I’ve tried baby lead weani...

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Potty Training Pants

Hi, we are soon going to start my son's potty training. Any recommendations for good potty training pants ? and also if you have any tips to help us with the process. Thank you !

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Weaning

Is anyone happy to share what they have given their babies for the first couple of weeks of weaning? Just looking for ideas as I think I’ll start with some pureed broccoli with breastmilk.

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potty training tips - 2 yr old non verbal

tips please on how to introduce a non verbal 2 yr old (boy)! Thank you ☺️

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Food

hey, is anyone else struggling with food with there little ones? my little one LOVES fruit, and a couple other things, but apart from that anything i offer him, he will try but just throw, breakfast and dinner aren’t so much an issue, but lunch I am struggling with, I just don’t really know what to do, I just keep ...

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American kids programmes

I’m British and I really don’t like my child watching American tv programmes. Am I on my own here? It’s just the difference in language, terminology and accent used, all while trying to teach my child to learn and speak British English.

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the new food pouch study help??!

so i hate weaning, im scared of weaning first of all but we’re now in a nice routine of porridge for breakfast and then she gets a pouch at 3pm but now i can’t give her them?? she’s just learning to love them 😫 - do you think this guidance of not enough iron etc is aimed at 8 month olds who gets all their nutrients…

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