I have a almost 4 year old who I don't have custody of. Long story but he was awarded to his dad. In Washington where I used to live they awarded his dad full custody but I have been noticing that there is something wrong with our son. There is a chance he has Austim maybe even add or ADHD. He can't talk well. He is always sick with ear infection, the croup, or the flu or some kind of stomach bug. He goes to preschool but hardly ever goes because he is always sick. When I tell my ex that I am concerned about something and he should bring it up to his doctor he says ok I will. I wait awhile and ask if he got him checked or brought up to his doctor my concerns and he says no I didn't I don't think it is something to worry about and he is fine now or he also says I forgot and it doesn't concern me. But all the signs are there. Even if it is small he could still benefit from some help. But his dad won't listen to me. So I need to talk to a lawyer or someone here in California to get some advice and see if I can open up a case here and get some advice on what to do. Does anyone know anyone I can talk to? If you do please comment or message me. Thank you