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Ovulation tests

Easy at home

I am trying to the easy at home ovulation test and not getting on with them 🤣 every test is low but this look nearly positive? Any help would be great. I do have endometriosis too so not sure if this affecting me or not.

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Not what I expected

I have 2 kids and we were wanting a 3rd. We have 6 losses between June 2024 and February 2025 . I started working at a ongyn office and decided to see one of the providers. Turns out not only do I have PCOS, I have endometrial polyps,and adenomyosis. Basically having another child isnt possible for me . And they have scheduled me for a hysterectomy next month . Just 1 month before my 27th birthday.

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Fertility treatments

When to stop trying?

Hi everyone ❤️

I have a 3.5 yr old son who is my absolutely everything. He was born after 3 ectopics, 1 early loss & 2 rounds of IVF so I realise how lucky I am to have him.

I'm completely infertile so a potential 2nd child was always going to have to be IVF conceived. We had another FET in March this year which sadly ended in a chemical pregnancy. We then paid our clinic for another round & meds which have just sat there. I feel like every month I've been putting it off as we had events etc.

Now I'm at the stage we can do it I'm just not sure I want to. I feel so guilty for not being 100% all in to give my son a potential sibling. Would it be so bad to just have one child? I worry for his childhood & him being lonely.

I'm also now thinking about my age 36 & my partner is nearly 41, we're already "old" parents to my son.

I feel like I've finally got a little bit of me back after this summer & letting my hair down. I'm so torn between having another round, another potential fail 😭 or just throwing all my energy into giving my son the best possible childhood as one & being the best version of me.

TIA xx

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Miscarriage

Does the pain ever go?

It's been more than a year of trying after a miscarriage. Everyone at work is pregnant. I'm constantly being asked when I'm having a second. My sister in law is now pregnant. Everybody is pregnant and it's breaking my heart.

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Ovulation tests

Has anybody had a HSG test?

I recently saw a fertility specialist for our secondary infertility problems and they have suggested a HSG test to check my fallopian tubes for blockage, damage etc. I just want to know what to expect from the test and if it helped you to conceive as I have heard that fertility can increase for the next few months

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