My partner spends nights at his parents. We have 2 young children together. It’s pretty much weekly and either once or twice a week.
I think it’s super weird for an adult man to be spending night at his parent’s house when he has a partner & young children together.
Does anyone else’s partner do this?
I don’t want my children spending nights there and won’t be until I am comfortable for my children to have sleep overs. But I honestly feel like I am not his priority and the family we have together will always come second. But he gets super defensive about it when I try to bring it up and turns it on me.
He says he goes there for convenience if he has uni (but he doesn’t end up going to the university anyway??) or says he needs to get some sleep. (He doesn’t even get up to the kids throughout the night) ????
Super weird???? Or am I being dramatic.
How can I bring this up to him without him thinking I’m attacking his parents? But also why are his parents encouraging him to spend nights from his family when they claim to be ‘all about family’ etc etc.