Girl Talk

So my man has been hanging out with a friend from work. Every time he goes to hang out with him he leaves around like 2-3pm and will come back home around 4am. He doesn’t check in on us the whole time he’s gone and I can barely get a reply.

For context: he also texts and hangs out with this friend’s girlfriend and her best friend. Which I told him makes me kinda uncomfortable because he’s told me stories of his friends girlfriend cheating on him multiple times.

Am I stressing too much?

Me and my bf have a 2 month old. We moved out of our home town 3 years ago and closest family is 2.5 hours away. I have 3 friends I use to see often. All of us use to work together but after 2 years I was the only one still at the job, that I quit after I had our daughter. So my daughter was going through this faze where she only wanted me to hold her. Rarely did she let even he dad hold her. Now she really liked one of my friends but I think it was due to her being pregnant because she seemed draw to pregnant women. My MIL was up and my daughter wasn't a big fan. I asked my friend who was toddler free for a week if she could come over and help me while her son was out of town. I asked if she could come Friday she said her son came back that day sp I asked about Thursday. Said id come get her, buy her lunch and take her home. I just needed her to watch my daughter for a few hours while I cleaned up my house. Ny dresser had fallen over broke and all my clothes had fallen in the hallway leading to my bedroom. She.said "probably not, my husband said he has a surprise and to be ready by 5pm...." am i wrong to want to cut off contact with her due to her blowing me off when I asked for help?

So my friend is pregnant with her 3rd child. She’s on benefits which I have no problem with but it means they’re gonna get moved into a different house cos they’re in a 2 bed while there’s 4 of them there already.
But what annoys me is she’s saying she can afford getting this baby brand new everything, (bed, buggy, prep machine, ect) which just grinds my gears a little as my partner works while I watch our kids (3 and not quite 1) and if we were to have a 3rd we’d not be able to afford new. We couldn’t even afford brand new everything with our first! And we both worked at that point!

Just annoying how someone living off of the government get so much more then people who want to go back to work, but can’t as don’t have the means to!

I’ve got 3 children already and really wanting a 4th. Me and my partner have been together almost 11 years and he really doesn’t want another one and makes it known that when he met me he only wanted 1 baby to start with (and we now have 3). Im starting to think that he is a very selfish person. He does provide for his children and help me put financially but physically he doesn’t do much with the children anyways, it’s all me that looks after the children.

He has told me if I fall pregnant again he will leave me and try guilt trip me into saying that the other children will miss out on a father because of my own selfishness of wanting one more.

Has anyone been in this situation before and what did you do.

Anyone else miss having a newborn. Not enough to get pregnant lol but seeing pictures of them when they were so small.. makes me want to go back and push pause on those moments