Sex & Relationships with Cert Sex Coach Melissa Vranjes

Tell me what your biggest struggle is in the bedroom right now? I’ll pick the top 3 and unpack them and provide tools 💖💖

I have never had any sorta sex drive and I don’t really get horny and I hate it, is there something I can take or do to fix this???? I want to enjoy sex and I want to want to have sex. Any advice??

So my fiancé & I used to have sex ALL the time. After our first son, I had major PPD & it took a while to get out sex life back but eventually things went back to normal. However, ever since getting pregnant & having our second son we RARELY have sex….he’s been suffering from major depression for a while & most nights falls asleep early & our relationship has been really rocky for a little while, but I’m just so insecure because we’ve at least always maintained a good sex life. Is it crazy to think he’s sleeping with someone else?! I just feel like he’s not attracted to me anymore & I dunno how to bring back the passion & excitement we used to have before having 2 small children….anyone have any experience or advice on how to make things better here? I’d love to be back to the place where we can’t keep our hands off each other again…I hate feeling like he’s not into it at all.

My husband has a very high need for physical intimacy. In his eyes that means sex at least three times a week and by sex he means oral and penetrative. I’ve been going to couples sex therapy and now hypnotherapy but no matter what I do I just can’t feed his insatiable appetite for it. What’s wrong with me?

Hi, So during my pregnancy my sex drive went low, I didn’t wanna have sex at all, kissed or be touched at all. I wasn’t feeling it and I thought after my pregnancy it would come back,but it didn’t ,before I was pregnant my sex drive was high, my partner and I sex life was good. but now it’s not I thought maybe it was a pregnancy phase, my sex drive is still low I don’t know why or what to do. My partner everyday constantly is asking for sex, and I just don’t want to I always say no ,and he gets mad and guilt trips me but I still say no i don’t care honestly I don’t want to. I don’t get turned on anymore, is this a normal thing? I don’t know to tell my partner to just leave me alone and accept the no, it irritates me to the point I just wanna leave him. He doesn’t understand and I hate he gets mad, I just don’t want nothing I don’t want to kiss him or hug him nothing. Now he thinks i’m cheating which i’m not, he went though my phone the other day which he has never done, it just so annoying he can’t understand I don’t want to and he also forces himself on me.What can I do? :(