Sex & Relationships with Cert Sex Coach Melissa Vranjes

low sex drive

Hi, So during my pregnancy my sex drive went low, I didn’t wanna have sex at all, kissed or be touched at all. I wasn’t feeling it and I thought after my pregnancy it would come back,but it didn’t ,before I was pregnant my sex drive was high, my partner and I sex life was good. but now it’s not I thought maybe it was a pregnancy phase, my sex drive is still low I don’t know why or what to do. My partner everyday constantly is asking for sex, and I just don’t want to I always say no ,and he gets mad and guilt trips me but I still say no i don’t care honestly I don’t want to. I don’t get turned on anymore, is this a normal thing? I don’t know to tell my partner to just leave me alone and accept the no, it irritates me to the point I just wanna leave him. He doesn’t understand and I hate he gets mad, I just don’t want nothing I don’t want to kiss him or hug him nothing. Now he thinks i’m cheating which i’m not, he went though my phone the other day which he has never done, it just so annoying he can’t understand I don’t want to and he also forces himself on me.What can I do? :(

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If your partner got a prostitute pregnant and then abandoned the child/ran away, what would be your response? Read…

So you were not in a relationship at the time or were about to be in a relationship, he gets the prostitute pregnant.
It’s her fault for not taking their morning after pill.
He tells her straight up that he’s not going to be involved and that she should terminate it.
She says that she won’t terminate and she hopes that he does stick around

So she deliberately gets pregnant, basically traps him

What would be your reaction?
he’s response is:
“She trapped me and it’s her fault for not taking the pill”

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Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

Any mamas looking for a bestie

Hello mamas,

I have lost alot of friendships the last year and 4 months my babygirl meand the world to me but I would love to talk to some other mamas and hopefully find a bestie that doesnt mind me not responding quickly but will also be keen to call or meet up I'm based in Christchurch, New Zealand. A bonus if you dont mind ranting from me and also might have a partner that could get along with my fiance

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Let’s skip to the good part and just be besties? Text, call, ft.. play dates or just simply hang out. Just want a genuine mommy friend. I’m in NW Indiana but we can be long distance besties tooooo.

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