Sex life is 🫠
Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠
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nah fuck that. no more blowjobs. hes a selfish prick, what man doesn't want his woman to get off. i wouldn't even have sex with him, it would make me dry tf up. tell him your not getting your needs met, hes the only one getting pleasure, bj and cumming and your not so your no longer interested in doing anything sexual with him until hes given you a few orgasms minimum. and you want foreplay every time now. my man doesn't want to do it so he gets nothing from me too loool 🗑️😂
i’ve never heard anyone say sex is better without lube
id go on sex strike if my partner refused to meet my need in a selfish way. obvs if something has happened and he wasn’t able to do anything then that is different but that doesn’t seem the case from what ur saying
id go on sex strike and just finish by myself lol
Lowkey sounds like he’s cheating fr not tryna put ts in ur head but why tf can’t he please you?? I would stop giving head etc in general cus fuck that. sounds like he feels entitled too it. Either that or he’s gay or sum cus what MAN doesn’t want too please his girl?? Definitely stop giving him what he wants. But I def feel u on the sex life shit I haven’t been interested in sex like I used to before I had my son. Idk I was always ok with out. Didn’t start having sex until I was 19 years old😭 & now that I’m pregnant again yea naw. I just don’t be interested in it like I used too. But with ur man I feel like if he genuinely likes you he’d want too please you. ( not saying he doesn’t like you) it’s just odd that he expects you too fulfill his needs yet he can’t even please you. Cus a year ?? Definitely match energy.
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