Sex life is 🫠

Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

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nah fuck that. no more blowjobs. hes a selfish prick, what man doesn't want his woman to get off. i wouldn't even have sex with him, it would make me dry tf up. tell him your not getting your needs met, hes the only one getting pleasure, bj and cumming and your not so your no longer interested in doing anything sexual with him until hes given you a few orgasms minimum. and you want foreplay every time now. my man doesn't want to do it so he gets nothing from me too loool 🗑️😂

i’ve never heard anyone say sex is better without lube

id go on sex strike if my partner refused to meet my need in a selfish way. obvs if something has happened and he wasn’t able to do anything then that is different but that doesn’t seem the case from what ur saying

id go on sex strike and just finish by myself lol

Lowkey sounds like he’s cheating fr not tryna put ts in ur head but why tf can’t he please you?? I would stop giving head etc in general cus fuck that. sounds like he feels entitled too it. Either that or he’s gay or sum cus what MAN doesn’t want too please his girl?? Definitely stop giving him what he wants. But I def feel u on the sex life shit I haven’t been interested in sex like I used to before I had my son. Idk I was always ok with out. Didn’t start having sex until I was 19 years old😭 & now that I’m pregnant again yea naw. I just don’t be interested in it like I used too. But with ur man I feel like if he genuinely likes you he’d want too please you. ( not saying he doesn’t like you) it’s just odd that he expects you too fulfill his needs yet he can’t even please you. Cus a year ?? Definitely match energy.

Sounds like little dick energy. My guy loves eating box sometimes I have to tell him no and we get straight to it WITH lube because my guys not an asshole. (Sometimes I just KNOW we have very little time so we just need to get to it) Anyones who had to do the deed dry just knows it’s agony!! Giving head since having our girl just doesn’t feel right on my end and he understands it he’s asked me to do it and I have like 3x in about a year and 2months. So shame on me.
BUT girl HOLD OUT ON HIM FUCK THAT!!
My suggestions in terms of you not getting yours?
Tracy’s dog, a rose toy OBVIOUSLY or a hitachi wand

no more blow jobs and no more sex!! sit him down and tell him what is what. obviously withholding sex from your partner isn’t the best way to go about issues. but he’s being incredibly selfish. my husband goes down on me most of the times we have sex, and we have sex AT LEAST 4 times a week. even while i’m 6 months pregnant. and he’s down that our entire relationship. it’s foreplay and that’s a big reason i reciprocate. your husband should want to please you in that way. and for him to just straight up not care that it’s hurting you, you need to stop everything and explain to him. it’s not fair to you.

This reeks of sexual coercion & going dry knowing it harms you is absolutely abusive. Seriously, you have so many better options than pleasuring this man, you could enjoy sex so much more by buying a bottle of your favorite lube & a rabbit vibrator or hell, for those not like me who prefer to have it all at once, get one of those rose things & tell this undeserving man NO!

Girl RUN. Do not have a life of shitty, unsatisfying, one sided sex! He should be bowing down at your knees to make sure you’re enjoying it just as much as him every single time. There’s men that will go above and beyond, don’t settle for one who doesn’t give a fuck about your needs as long as he’s alright. He sounds like a dick and this won’t change. Ask yourself, are you prepared to be with someone for the rest of your life that doesn’t care about your feelings or needs?

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Time off work to care for sick toddler

Hi mums,

My wee one had to be picked up from nursery on Wednesday afternoon and we ended up in A&E with 40C fever (my wee one is 15 months old). I then told my employer and told them that I’ve to take off the next few days. In total I took two days and the weekend (weekends I’m off anyway). We had a chat about me taking off to take care for my child but it was very vague. My wee one is still having slight fever and cold symptoms and she’s supposed to go back to nursery tomorrow and me returning to work. Obviously, as long she’s having fever I am feeling very uncomfortable not caring for my child. I’m trying to find out what the general rule of law is in Scotland when it comes to taking off to take care of your children. I can’t really find anything, I’m not expecting to be paid but I’m worried to call sick for another day tomorrow (partner can take over from Tuesday). Anyone any guidance? Thanks 🙏🏻

Where’s my yappers at?!

I need someone to text back and fourth all day! Now I get, we get busy and things like that. I work and have three kids, so I totally get it. But I just want to yappppp about everything and anything! I feel like as soon as I give my number out, everybody disappears😔

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If you’re on here begging for a friend and then use one word replies and then ghost. . You’re WEIRD. . And this app isn’t for you. . IDK about you . But I’m on here to make REAL friends that are capable of holding a conversation!… and NOT talking about themselves the ENTIRE time. . Girl bye. 👋..

Idk what to do with my relationship

We been having issues for a few months now and I refuse to even be intimate with him since he told me I was fat for the time he meet me (mind this I been pregnant cuz of him back to back. For 2 years ) I’m finnaly getting my self back together cuz of postpartum but he told me he thinks of other woman and is a (promise) to cheat on me and put me down a lot I’m scared to leave cuz I don’t want him taking my babies away