Any mamas looking for a bestie

Hello mamas,

I have lost alot of friendships the last year and 4 months my babygirl meand the world to me but I would love to talk to some other mamas and hopefully find a bestie that doesnt mind me not responding quickly but will also be keen to call or meet up I'm based in Christchurch, New Zealand. A bonus if you dont mind ranting from me and also might have a partner that could get along with my fiance

in our community

mommy friends

y’all are boring to talk to 😭😂 like damn, i just want friendships where the conversation actually flowssss. i don’t wanna feel like i’m carrying the conversation or i’m the only one being open & actually trying. ask questions, tell stories, share random shit, let’s skip the awkward small talk & talk like we’ve known each other forever 😂 i wanna feel like i’m talking WITH you, not interviewing you lmao.

When did you first go out?

For something small like a coffee or short walk around the shops

What’s considered cheating ?

I went thought my boyfriends phone I’m 8 months pregnant and all these messages were deleted in the trash . He was asking her to call him and calling her my nickname . Would you consider this cheating . There’s more but I’m all out of energy bc I’m in shock rn

Contractions tracker app

Hi! For the mums who have already given birth, what contractions tracker app did you use and would you recommend it?

Leaving baby over night

Baby girl is about to be 10 months, I have never left her for a night and have only left her during the day for a few hours. She is very attached to me, which is normal. But my partner and I have been struggling in our relationship lately so he wants to book a night away next week for us to spend some much needed time together but I know my baby won’t settle during the night (she doesn’t sleep through the night yet and will typically only resettle if I go into her). I feel really pressured to leave her which is making my anxiety worse (I have PPD and anxiety so I know my feelings are heightened). I know if we go I won’t relax or enjoy it because I’ll be worrying about our baby settling

Am I being over dramatic?

Idk how are we supposed to cope?

I'm a single mum with zero contact with bd (dont claim anything Dont want to) i work part time because of childcare. I get UC top up because if i worked full time id be paying half of it to childcare and doing both works out about the same or a tiny bit better than not working at all. But realistically its still not a lot to live off of in a month, Ive started a little 'side hustle' that was helping for extra money and to pay off debt but realistically i will have to pay tax on it and it will be more hassle then its worth and probably not overly beneficial. What am i supposed to do, what are we supposed to do? Just be broke and survive?