If your partner got a prostitute pregnant and then abandoned the child/ran away, what would be your response? Read…

I don’t like the “it’s her fault for not taking the morning after pill” statement. If that’s the case, it’s also his fault for not using protection.

It’s both their fault and it says a lot about him if he abandoned a child who’s innocent and deserves both their parents.

How old was he?

I think that’s kinda an unfair framing of baby trapping, to me baby trapping is intentionally getting pregnant by a man who you either don’t know would want the baby or straight up know he doesn’t want a baby, women who lie about being on BC or poke holes in a condom etc like it happens before conception. This situation sounds like they had sex and accidentally conceived and at that point you can’t force a woman to make a decision regarding her own body/ personal beliefs. And it also feels unfair to say it’s her fault for not taking a plan b, I doubt a prostitute wouldn’t even want an unwelcomed pregnancy throwing her whole career off, she may have not thought she needed a plan b for whatever reason, BC or maybe she even took one but it didn’t work who knows. My immediate reaction is I wouldn’t be with him regardless of any of these details simply because I find men who go to prostitutes vile

that’s his fault he should’ve used his own protection. i would leave him for sure.

😅😅😅 yeah right. He fcks a prostitute raw and your most important thought is it's her fault ???? Y'all deserve eachother. Choose him and find out. And regardless of her career is he an idiot who doesn't understand how sex and biology works?? Even if she agreed to trap him he should know better and he's simply disgusting 🤢 she'll be just fine without him.

dude is raw dogging prostitutes and then claiming he got baby trapped. Girl you are in danger lol RUN

30 should be more mature than having unprotected sex with a prostitute, the baby trapping is terrible. Its not the kids fault though 🤷‍♀️

😡I wouldnt want to deal with a man who deals with prostitutes. Literally putting his sexual health at risk for hiv, aids, herpes, etc if he doesn’t already have it all.

😡He is wreckless sexually and with his semen.

🥶 lacks morals. Tells a women to basically kill his child and blames her…even though he jizzed in a sex worker. Like they owe u nothing and u assume all risks. Wow.


Yea i wouldnt invite that train wreck into my life. Id run for the hills. Find a man who is sexually and morally responsible…:. and @30 u should know better.

Girl your so delusional. He's disgusting and an idiot. Who does that? Sure, you can say she trapped him. But he chose to do this which is already gross, then he chose to do it raw. I wouldn’t touch him with a ten foot pole. Get tested and leave.

First of all. Takes two to tango. If this is the result of having sex, time to step up. Secondly, if that’s his response to something he had a hand in making, I’d run. Because who’s to say he wouldn’t do that to me if I got pregnant by him. I don’t play that shit. lol so yeah no. I’d run 🏃‍♀️

My partner would longer be partner if he abandoned a woman & her child regardless of her proffession cuz what kind of self respecting man does that & how can he actually live with himself? Also doesn’t matter the timeline of not being in a Relationship or were abt to be in a relationship; it’s all excuses
Cuz who cares; The facts still remains is, he was raw dogging prosistutes & abandoned her & the baby; which is nasty & crazy work. The consequences or result of sex are STDs or pregnancy, so u fuck around & find out! What was he expecting? He probably has more kids out there 🤷🏾‍♀️
“It’s her fault for not taking their morning after pill” this must be the delusion talking? “he tells her straight up that he’s not going to be involved & that she should terminate it” wow he sounds like a real keeper 🤦🏾‍♀️ cuz this is exactly how Good men react after they raw dog a woman & get her pregnant. 🙄
His response “she “trapped” me & it’s her fault for not taking the pill” the audacity
So many red flags 🚩

The issue isn't that he abandoned his child...sex was consensual, he was an active participant... But that he felt he needed to sleep with a prostitute? Um. Not the man I'd choose to fight over personally. The child abandonment after is the cherry on top. Even if she did 'trap' him it wasn't rape. He has a financial obligation if paternity is established regardless of the circumstances of their conception. Don't let him fool you into going to bat for him, he's not worth all that.

I wouldn’t want to be with any man who abandoned their child, regardless of the context.

"Its her fault"
He. Did. Not. Wear. A. Condom.
So really, the pregnancy is actually his fault.
This man respects no woman - not you. But you can respect yourself, that is in your control.

You lost me at prostitute tbh

I would never be with a guy who sleeps with prostutes ( especially WITHOUT A CONDOM) like wtff. How do you trust a complete stranger about matters like that. And don’t get your own protection as well. And I would never want to be with someone who so casually can abandon his child regardless of the situation.

He wasn’t trapped. He is just a dumb ass ( I’m sorry 😂) but how do you put your bare dick in someone who sleeps with god knows how many man in a day.. and then her being pregnant and you calling it trapping ? So immature I swear.. is this rage bait ? Cause it’s working on me 😂

Who has unprotected sex with a prostitute??!

And abandoning a child? It takes two to tango - he’s equally responsible. Even if she had taken the morning after pill, it’s not always effective.

Look, girl, it’s your life. But if that were me, I’d get tested for STIs and run for the hills.

Frankly if she was ovulating plan b wouldn't have worked. There were choices to be made and he made bad ones whilst thinking he could blame others for them.

I agree with every single comment and I really can't believe you're trying to defend him like any of this is ok 🤦🏾‍♀️

Takes 2 to tango , he’s just as responsible as her

I guess this post didn’t get the responses OP intended to get🤣🤭

The misogyny oozing from you is so gross. Sounds like you guys are made for eachother. Rooting for the other girl and her poor baby on this one ☝️

What am I even reading

“It’s her fault” girl you’re gross. You both are toxic.

Firstly it is not her fault solely, he should have wore a condom for multiple reasons. Secondly I highly doubt id get with a man that gets with or pays for prostitutes. Thirdly, regardless of who and how it happened, he didn’t have a right to tell someone to get rid cos he don’t want it when he did nothing to stop it happening. What if he gets you pregnant? He abandoning that child too if you wana keep it!!!

I’d never be with a man who paid a vulnerable woman for sex. One of my biggest icks. Unprotected sex with a prostitute is just unbelievably sick, that man doesn’t not care about his body 🤮

???

He jizzed in her, it’s his fault 🤣

“She deliberately gets pregnant” as if he didn’t stick his dick in her??? RAW

So I firmly believe a man has the right to walk away if he doesn't want to be a father. I absolutely judge if no protection was used and could not entertain someone who a. paid anyone for sex, b. wasn't smart enough to use protection, c. told her to get an abortion (he gets an opinion on his involvement not her choices) and c. entirely blamed her.

He is a walking red flag.

Aside from the craziness of the sentiment towards the sex worker and her motive to keeping a pregnancy…

My response would be through a lawyer cause I don’t fuck with someone who has sex with sex workers let alone unprotected sex. I’d also be getting screened myself, he can contact my representative and never should his shadow cross my door.

Also amazed that this post hasn't been deleted whenever I open comments from my notifications 🤣

The fact he’s solely blaming her is a major red flag!

Seriously wtf ?! You’re an even bigger idiot than him if you actually think he’s done no wrong! Firstly but sorry anyone who goes with a prostitute is pure disgusting & for him to not use protection???! 🤮 why would u not ?? There’s no trapping there, if she had said to him she was on protection or something & lied okay I can see that but the fact he purposely didn’t choose to wrap it up- he wasn’t trapped he’s a idiot! Can’t believe u are so delusional 😂

Dont date someone that hooks up with prostitutes. Its dangerous for your health to have sex with him (even with condoms)

It also says a lot on his views about sex, that it is transactional and that women are sexual objects.

As for the pregnancy, well his reaction to all of that confirms my first 2 points.

Run for your life girl. Run.

Thus can't be a serious post