So you were not in a relationship at the time or were about to be in a relationship, he gets the prostitute pregnant.
It’s her fault for not taking their morning after pill.
He tells her straight up that he’s not going to be involved and that she should terminate it.
She says that she won’t terminate and she hopes that he does stick around
So she deliberately gets pregnant, basically traps him
What would be your reaction?
he’s response is:
“She trapped me and it’s her fault for not taking the pill”
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I don’t like the “it’s her fault for not taking the morning after pill” statement. If that’s the case, it’s also his fault for using protection. And if he’s in a relationship, he shouldn’t have been having sex with her anyways???
It’s both their fault and it says a lot about him if he abandoned a child who’s innocent and deserves both their parents.

How old was he?

I think that’s kinda an unfair framing of baby trapping, to me baby trapping is intentionally getting pregnant by a man who you either don’t know would want the baby or straight up know he doesn’t want a baby, women who lie about being on BC or poke holes in a condom etc like it happens before conception. This situation sounds like they had sex and accidentally conceived and at that point you can’t force a woman to make a decision regarding her own body/ personal beliefs. And it also feels unfair to say it’s her fault for not taking a plan b, I doubt a prostitute wouldn’t even want an unwelcomed pregnancy throwing her whole career off, she may have not thought she needed a plan b for whatever reason, BC or maybe she even took one but it didn’t work who knows. My immediate reaction is I wouldn’t be with him regardless of any of these details simply because I find men who go to prostitutes vile

that’s his fault he should’ve used his own protection. i would leave him for sure.

😅😅😅 yeah right. He fcks a prostitute raw and your most important thought is it's her fault ???? Y'all deserve eachother. Choose him and find out. And regardless of her career is he an idiot who doesn't understand how sex and biology works?? Even if she agreed to trap him he should know better and he's simply disgusting 🤢 she'll be just fine without him.

dude is raw dogging prostitutes and then claiming he got baby trapped. Girl you are in danger lol RUN

30 should be more mature than having unprotected sex with a prostitute, the baby trapping is terrible. Its not the kids fault though 🤷♀️

😡I wouldnt want to deal with a man who deals with prostitutes. Literally putting his sexual health at risk for hiv, aids, herpes, etc if he doesn’t already have it all.
😡He is wreckless sexually and with his semen.
🥶 lacks morals. Tells a women to basically kill his child and blames her…even though he jizzed in a sex worker. Like they owe u nothing and u assume all risks. Wow.
Yea i wouldnt invite that train wreck into my life. Id run for the hills. Find a man who is sexually and morally responsible…:. and @30 u should know better.

Girl your so delusional. He's disgusting and an idiot. Who does that? Sure, you can say she trapped him. But he chose to do this which is already gross, then he chose to do it raw. I wouldn’t touch him with a ten foot pole. Get tested and leave.
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