Found out a month ago he was cheating. I was considering leaving. Then tonight he went out with friends. I grabbed his phone while grabbing the baby’s bottle

and just tonight he messaged someone on tinder, tried to go to the strip club with a friend and called a random ass place at 1:30 for a massage

Need some validation or something cause I feel crazy

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Wait for clarification these are texts from him? What does he mean do your job? 😒

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So when’s the part where we go and jump him??🤨

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You are not crazy he is an asshole so sorry you are going through this 🙏 Leave if you can ASAP you don’t need this disrespect while trying to take care of a baby and your hormones would be all over the place ❤️

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Omg my ex was messaging someone and said it was happy ending massages

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Leaveeee - what a waste of space

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He’s gaslighting you. He is incapable of loving you and has severe issues. You need to get as far away from him as possible, seriously.

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Wow he has no respect or remorse for his previous cheating. Harder said than done but he needs to go in the bin. You deserve so much better. I actually can't believe his audacity to be honest. You are not going mad. You are not dramatic

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Hey babe, I hate to tell you this, but the “do your job” comment within this context tells me he doesn’t respect you as a human being… please leave before this gets scary.

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This is why I don’t believe someone that once cheats will never change. That’s my opinion and I could never go back there because genuinely that boundary and respect is gone. He’ll continue disrespecting you because he’s cheated and got away with it. Now he’s downplaying everything he is doing about “I was JUST on some horny shit” and that he’s really playing mind games on you. Flipping it to look like you’re the bad in this for finding nothing going through his phone. Plus save yourself your sanity and peace if you still feel the need to look through his phone you don’t trust him at all and you’re going to drive yourself insaneeeee constantly feeling in the edge

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