Frustrating

if they cut you off because you’re married, they were never going to be that ‘cool guy friend’ you’re looking for. if a man stops contact with a woman purely because she is married, it means he was actively seeking something else and then sees no value in this woman anymore because she cannot give that to him. that’s definitely not a man you want around you babe! definitely do not lie about being married, that’s disrespectful to your partner in my opinion, whether in your mind it isn’t for that reasoning or not. and also it would be building a friendship on a lie which would never lead to anything solid anyway so a waste of both of your times xx

But it’s weird because they be in relationships and tell me about their relationships and I don’t be caring. And I would never lie about my marriage I tell them straight off the bat, I would just saying maybe I shouldn’t unless they asked.

From experience, a man being in a relationship and also being open about that relationship is by no means a sign that they aren’t also actively trying to pursue cheating on that woman with you.