mums without mums 💔😪

Hi! I lost my mom to cancer when I was 10 and I am no contact with my step mom, was little contact with my dad and he passed away last year.

I have been focusing on my found family and building that out more. Happy to DM about being no contact with parents. Lots of experience.

My mom passed in 2022 but I was low contact with her and I know I wouldn't have really allowed her around my kids. Its so hard but thankfully I have a good mother in law but its not the same.

Yes x ive been no contact with my mum for 4 years, i know how hard it is to want a family and craving a stable relationship with your family x i literally am bringing no family on my side to my kids because they are all not very nice people, i also watch my partner have such an amazing family which is hard aswell because i want that x its definitely something that you shouldn’t have to experience, i hope you’re okay

Hey!!🥺🩷I went no contact right before last Christmas. It was the hardest on my 2 year old. She was almost 2 at the time and she was a nana’s girl even tho nana only cared about herself.

My mom was… not a great mother. She used to threaten to hurt me when she could no longer get away with doing it. She used to financially abuse me as I’ve been on SSI since I was 18 and we lived together on and off even into my adulthood up until last year. She constantly said mean things. Tried to hurt me in some way because she felt like her own life was in shambles etc etc. everything was always a competition or what we as her children could provide for her in return for her help. My little brother went no contact with her 6 months or so prior to me. And almost none of her ex husbands kids talk to her anymore, he has 4. She burned every bridge she’s had. Her sister doesn’t talk to her anymore. I lost the better part of 20 years with my dad because of her bitter baby mama bullshit.

Ohh my God your not alone. my baby girl loves her grandfather so I tried my best to be a good child to my father. but my father his good with me because of my mother he even said am not his. sometimes I aske my self am I really that bad?

I chose to go no contact about 10 years ago. I don’t miss her, I miss the experience I never got of a real mother. Now being pregnant it’s even more irritating because I couldn’t imagine treating my girl like she treated me.

I've been no contact with my dad since March and things are really rocky with my mum at the moment. I finally told her some home truths that she didn't like, she read my message but hasn't replied, that was last Thursday 🫠 she's so unreliable and lets us down constantly, she lies about everything and it's just so shit 🫠