Second baby
So I found out I’m pregnant this will be my second pregnancy I’m 5weeks and 5 days but my bf want me to have an abort and I don’t know if I want to he made his mind up and he letting that be known I don’t know what to do every time we try to talk about it, it doesn’t always get solved we can’t get on the same page 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Any tips?
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It’s not his choice. It’s yours. It’s your body and your the one who has to go through with either pregnancy or an abortion.
However, you can’t force him to want another baby so if you chose to keep the baby then he may walk away.
I’m sorry you’re in this situation, this would be me if I got pregnant with a 3rd, I couldn’t abort and my partner would want me to as he doesn’t want a 3rd, so he’s going to get a vasectomy x
No tips. Follow your heart and let him follow his. If you want to keep the baby, that is your choice and if he doesn't want to have another child, that is his choice.
If your heart tells you you’re supposed to have this baby, listen.
It is your body, your choice. When I had my first, my baby daddy made it very clear he didn’t want anything to do with it. Even threatened to give me a miscarriage. I made my choice. And told him he’s allowed to make his. If he chose to walk away, he was to stay away. If he chose to stay, he was to stay indefinitely. He made his choice. She didn’t meet her father properly until she was 2
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So I found out I’m pregnant this will be my second pregnancy I’m 5weeks and 5 days but my bf want me to have an abort and I don’t know if I want to he made his mind up and he letting that be known I don’t know what to do every time we try to talk about it, it doesn’t always get solved we can’t get on the same page 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Any tips?
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