Where's my bestie😩

I am STRUGGLING. how are 35 yr olds supposed to make friends??? I feel alone. The friends I have are the ones you say you guys will make plans and never do. Everyone around here is so different from me. I play video games, they ride four wheelers, I listen to all music, they listen to country, I'm covered in tattoos and piercings, they have nothing, I have 4 kids they are just having their first. I have 6 dogs they have no pets. I want to find my person. The person I can share everyrhing with. Face time if we live to far apart, play games, etc. I need a Christina to my meredith šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

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I'm totally looking for my person too girl! Let's see if we hit it off!

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Same. Im 37 with 3 kids (almost 17, 13, and almost 2) and 3 (2 huskies almost 2 years old and an Australian cattle almost 2 years old) dogs. Im in Colorado. But dont mind long distance bestie

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I feel how hard this is. I’m 42 and 3 kids. Two teens and a 7 year old autistic nonverbal kiddo. I am not outdoorsy. I listen to all music (except hard core screaming). I’m in crown point Indiana. Message me if you need to chat šŸ’•

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I feel like I’ve dm so many people and got no response. Is anyone actually here to connect ? 😭

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I have been with my husband for 15 years and currently have two kids. I have always been on the back burner , I use to be fun, i was fashionable and considered "pretty" and I swear to you im everything but . all that now, I hate myself and I stopped looking at myself for 5 years . I would avoid all mirrors and now that I finally got back into the groove... i dont like what I see. I wanna go "lick my wounds" in private. And im trying very hard to not do it.

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