I wanna disappear
I have been with my husband for 15 years and currently have two kids. I have always been on the back burner , I use to be fun, i was fashionable and considered "pretty" and I swear to you im everything but . all that now, I hate myself and I stopped looking at myself for 5 years . I would avoid all mirrors and now that I finally got back into the groove... i dont like what I see. I wanna go "lick my wounds" in private. And im trying very hard to not do it.
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why is it you feel that you can’t work on yourself currently? without leaving or ‘disappearing’. have you talked to your partner about how you feel? i’m sure if he knew he’d want to do more to support you and facilitate you being able to get back to feeling like yourself! or i would hope so! if not then that’s another conversation xx
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