Will I ever be good enough?

Awh men for u is he trying to make u feel bad though ?

Nothing is wrong with you. You can say no. He should respect and be willing to make a compromise it's not all about meeting his wants your wellbeing and desires should be valued respected and heard.

I highly recommend the book "come as you are". No there's nothing wrong with you. And yes you are already good enough, as you are right now. I definitely feel that this is common feeling for mothers. That book has helped me understand so much more and shed light on things I never I thought of

I'd like to share I went through this only to find out it wasn't that I couldn't feed his appetite because I dominated that however he was seeking something that he never truly came out and said he wanted some men are afraid ashamed of embarrassed to tell there lady what they really want and that's what you have to try and find out others excuse my French are animals for seeking it elsewhere and making you feel like your inadequate a failure or much worse no matter what just remember you matter to and you exist your feelings and desires matter and they need to be met as well mentally and physically and emotionally