I had asked him to tell her not to ask me if I’m still breast feeding when I had my first child. But I can still hear the conversation they had on the phone and she always still said “I know you told me not to ask her but can I ask you if she’s still breast feeding?”
How can I tell her plain and clearly to not ask about it at all due to the stress and pressure it causes me. I hate to blame someone else but in a real one I wasn’t able to produce because I was so stressed about peoples opinions of me forcefully trying to breast feed my child. It didn’t feel natural to me after that pressure from her. Even my own mother knew better than to ask me. The way I am (it might sound bad) but I’ve always been the type to do the opposite of what ppl tell me I need to do. It’s a pressure thing for me.