Healing from Toxic Mothers (Parents)

Recently decided not to talk to my parents due to not respecting boundaries only asked :

1. Not talk about childhood abuse,
2. No parenting advice,
3. No telling me how to be a wife.

Within an hour, my mother (bk story bi polar and addicting too Marijuana, & hash excessive 9 joints a day/ night) brought up childhood and normalized my childhood abuse.

To add to the issues above helping my sister through a bad divorce and can not handle my mother's continued disrespect.

I feel happy not to talk for 2 years, and my son is neurodivergent they give very old school abusive advice.

Wanted to know how ppl deal with toxic parents?

Thank you in advance.

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Happy 2025

My mother wants me to be a slave to the home. My 17 year old nephew stays here too and I went to visit my bf for 2 days and came home and I asked him did my mom mention anything about cleaning up to him and he said no . But the day I came home, she’s fussing telling me I’m a disappointment because I don’t agree to clean up the mess that was made while I was gone for them 2 days. I have my 2 kids I focus on and I’m only here temporarily for the next 2 months for financial reasons then I’m leaving again. But while I’m here, she literally expects me to do everything here while her 17 yo grandson sits on his tail and smoke pot & her 39 yo son(like father like son) . I think she’s miserable with her life mostly because my dad doesn’t help with anything here. He just works, come home n go into his shed outside for hours. Even made slick comments about my bf being her man then laughed it off like it was funny …. 😒

they don’t support me, they always talk down on me, make me feel like I have to do literally everything here when I shouldn’t be cleaning up after 3 boys in the home and her ass . Just my 2 kids and myself . It even influences my kids to get off track with things I’ve set in place. My 3 yo son literally came and told me “mema said she don’t care about you”… MY 3 YO REMEMBERS WHAT MY MOM SAID … & said it in front of him that’s even worse …

Should I cut my family off & move back with my bf & be better for me and my kids and just not reach out to them anymore ?