Maybe I have an unpopular opinion
Why does it matter so much to others if you are straight, gay, lesbian, bi, nonbinary etc (yes, I know there are several others, but I gave up a while ago keeping up with all the variations). If you are not harming anyone or anything and are not pushing your lifestyle on someone else, THEN WHO CARES. I've seen so many posts saying "does this make me gay or bi" Honestly, who says sexuality is linear? If you like it and it's not hurting anyone then go for it. You only have one life.
Now I have to admit I do have an issue when you identify as an animal or alien or something like that.
Am I a bad friend for denying being a Godmother to my best friend’s child??
I really need to know if I’m in the wrong here… okay here it goes. Years back my best friend got pregnant mind you this was her second pregnancy after miscarrying her first, which she never announced it to me until she was 7-8months in. That broke me because we shared everything… so with her second one I knew right off the bat, which brought us a bit closer then ever. Months after giving birth, she asked me to be her baby’s Godmother and at that time you guys have to understand I was dealing with a lot I just launched my business, I was in school, I made debts after debts It really was a blessing but the busiest part of my life. I had politely declined and stated my reasons and she just said “okay” with nothing else to say. We haven’t spoke since that day marking it 2years and boy I miss her soo much but I don’t know whether what I did was wrong enough for me to start and apologise first and make things right, or should I just leave things as is?? Help!!