Looking for mummy friends!

Hi everyone, I moved to Rochford a week before my little boy was born and don’t know anyone! Reid was born in November 2021, so is currently 10 weeks old. I’m looking for mums with similar age babies, to share the experience with! - coffee dates, long walks and baby groups.

in our community

SEX AFTER BIRTH 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️

IM DUE APRIL SIX AND THIS MF ALREADY PICKING OUT CONDOMS!!
BTW HES ALREADY FUCKING OTHER WOMEN WE ARE POLY SO I DIDN'T THINK ABOUT SEX AFTER BIRTH
I PLAN ON DOING A VAGINAL BIRTH AND HE WAS LIKE WELL MY OTHER BABY MOMS DIDN'T TAKE LONG TO HEAL🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️
IM LIKE IM NOT RISKING IT JUST CAUSE YOU WANT TO. HE GOT UPSET WITH ME CAUSE IM LIKE WE WON'T BE DOING ANYTHING FOR A WHILE. TBH NOW I JUST DON'T WANT HIM TOUCHING ME IN GENERAL CAUSE HE ISN'T WORRIED ABOUT MY HEALTH MENTALLY OR PHYSICALLY JUST HIS 1MIN NUT!!
LIKE IM SO OVER IT.

Can you orgasm vaginally (through penetration only)?

Just trying to see how many women are actually capable of reaching an orgasm through sex/penetration alone, WITHOUT clitoral stimulation

Am I the problem?

Ok ladies I need help and advice.
I’m currently 4 months and my boyfriend and I have been together around the same time of me being pregnant. At first it was good, I felt supported and it didn’t feel like anything was going wrong but most recently I’m questioning everything.
He’s going through something with his family and I’m trying to be as supportive as possible but since I live with my mom, I can’t help him like I want to. Not only that, I’m in college and focusing on starting a career in healthcare.
Well for him, whenever I’m out by myself or I don’t tell him stuff right away he thinks I’m doing something I’m not supposed to. And the other day I was busy focusing on registering for school and my future with college and kept asking me to have sex with him because I was house sitting for almost a week at my cousins house. This isn’t the only time he’s been acting like I’m being suspicious or doing something behind his back and it’s getting to the point where I’m even scared to tell him how I feel because of how I know he’ll react. He’s not abusive he’s just crazy and overreacts too much and that’s not something I won’t or didn’t see until now.

Matter of urgency

Hey can someone teach me how to use the shower head 🚿 for orgasm?it’s urgent please

Second child

I genuinely fear I wouldn’t be able to afford a second child. Which makes me so sad because I’d love another and more important I’d love a sibling for my current child.
but I don’t agree with parents who have children or multiple Knowing they can’t afford them and don’t ever do anything about it to try and change it.
I had to hand my notice into work at the end of my maternity leave, due to no nursery spaces and no one to have my son so that’s left me unemployed. Although I know when he starts pre school I’ll be able to get a job and make money again, I just fear in the years to come if I had another I couldn’t afford them both.
Living is so expensive now and I just worry.

Am I being logical? Or do I go ahead with my second child and figure it all out and know everything always works out somehow. Is it selfish of me to want another one when I have this worry in the back of my mind?

Gift for husband

Has anyone bought their husband/partner a gift to say thank you for their support during pregnancy? Looking for ideas!