When can I take my preemie baby outside?

My little girl was born at 34 + 5 by emergency c-section on 23rd January so she has just turned 5 weeks old. Her due date was 1st March which is tomorrow! She was 4lbs at birth and spent 11 days in neonatal before she was discharged. Other than initial feeding issues she is completely healthy just very small. She was weighed last week and is now 5lbs 8ozs. My question is when would you feel comfortable taking her outside for a walk? The nurses in the hospital had said to not take her out and limit visitors until her due date, but now that the date has arrived I still don't feel confident? I have been dying to get out of the house as I can't drive either with the section but don't want to take any chances 🤔 I already have 2 older kids and haven't had to consider any of this stuff before.

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How would this make you feel?

My ex husband cheated badly. He then went on to mentally and financially abuse me during our divorce when I got the guts to leave.

I later found out he’d started sleeping with one of my best friends. Why she went there is still a mystery to anybody because she knew how nasty he’d been to me. She must have lost her mind.

Anyway it’s been five years. I heard down the grape vine that they’ve had a rocky relationship but they did have a baby together. They also just got married too.

Anyway guess what. He’s done exactly the same to her as why he did to me.

Part of me hates the thought of this happening to any woman. Especially when kids are involved but the level of hurt the pair of them have inflicted onto me also makes me feel slightly glad! Karma caught up with her. I’m sad he’s not changed his ways, he’s a truly nasty person.

But I feel so conflicted about being secretly sorta happy this has happened. I could have predicted their ways would come back to bite them. Also I hate woman who do this to other woman. Me and my friend had been best friends since we’re 14!

How would you feel?
Has this ever happened to you?

Opinions - Trust Betrayed

Okay so long story short my husband (very sweet, sensitive, prone to bouts of depression though) and I hadn’t had sex in a long time. Like not the whole length of my pregnancy. I recently found out that about a month postpartum, he downloaded a few livestream apps that would have women on them acting inappropriately. He told me (and I believe him, also I can see that they were deleted in the App Store) that he downloaded them and then quickly deleted them, feeling that it went too far. He never told me about it, and I found out on accident. I’m feeling really betrayed by this, but honestly not sure how to handle the situation. I found out because I caught him playing a game on his phone that had anime girls in lingerie. I then searched his apps with his permission and saw the live-streaming apps. I’m mostly just venting but does anyone have advice or experience with something like this?

How would you feel?

About a week ago my partner lost his night retainer. He had his Invisalign about 4 years ago.

He's spent the first 3 days looking everywhere turning the house upside down and even not sleeping. He's been looking everywhere and not sleeping well at all

He got up at 4am and said I need to find them and I said babe come back to bed and he said leave me alone.

He starts work at 8:30, works from home. It was half 7 and he had our 7 week old and I said I got to her our 3 week old ready for nursery. He only started yesterday.

He was going on about his retainer and I said I'm sorry babe but it must not be here (we think our toddler must of thrown it) he started shouting at me calling .e negative and horrible and went mad. I now have the baby and my son is late for nursery.

How would you react?

Feeling guilty and awful

I dropped my little one off at nursery today it’s his second day and he was fine yesterday. But today he was crying and he had to be peeled off me. I feel awful , he goes from 7:30-6pm because I work and I wish I had it a diff way ! Does it get better will he settle ?

Feeling guilty

I am feeling really guilty. My baby is almost 8 months old, has learned she can stand up and all she wants to do is hold my hands to stand up. She gets extremely whiny, whingy and frustrated whenever I’m doing something that doesn’t involve holding her hands. This morning I was trying to set up a new baby camera and I couldn’t work out how to do it and she kept trying to climb me and was shouting and whinging. I pick her up and put her down on her bottom and I shouted ‘enough’ and she got really upset. this is probably me just ranting but when does it phase stops?! She used to be entertaining herself up until a couple of weeks ago but now she just won’t entertain herself anymore. I used to play with her and I still do now but before I was able to at least leave her do to bits, now no matter what new toys I show her she won’t let me wash bottles, tidy up, make lunch without crawling to my legs and cry 😭 I end up having to put tv on for a few minutes so I can sit down in peace without her whinging or whining. It’s constant, literally constant

Weaning

I started weaning my little boy around 5.5 months as he was more than ready and started on purées. I’m absolutely terrified of baby led weaning and wish I could get over this because I think he’s going off purées now as he loves the melty sticks and is great with them but I’m scared to give him anything else 😓

He’s 6.5 months now and tends to have breakfast and dinner, how can I get over the fear and offer him more solid foods?
Any advice would be appreciated as I’d love for him to be able to eat finger foods for when he starts the childminders in June!