How many miscarriage did you have before having a successful pregnancy?

I’m going through my second miscarriage and it is incredibly frustrating. So many people told me after my first miscarriage that the chances of having a second miscarriage is so low. I am exhausted and so scared that I’ll keep having miscarriages.

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I’m in a similar boat to you, two miscarriages and an ectopic. I agree- incredibly frustrating :( You just can’t lose hope!

oh I’m so sorry to hear that and yes, you’re right. It’s just so frustrating when I see so many people especially in my friendship group go on to have successful pregnancies. I can get pregnant easily but cannot seem to stay pregnant

I totally understand! It’s heartbreaking when your friends fall pregnant around you :(
Are you on fertility treatment?

No, I’m actually not. I’ve had a lot of tests and have been told that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with me! Are you on treatment?

I'm so sorry to hear about your losses. I had 2 confirmed but not 100% certain about a 3rd as if I did it was a chemical. I ended up needing fertility treatment after my 1st loss as it was a mmc that required a d&c but I got my rainbow after nearly 2 years and then had to be on progesterone and baby aspirin to keep her. She's now 14m and when we started trying for our 2nd assumed it would be a similar road and fell first go which was an absolute shock and am currently 25 weeks. It is incredibly frustrating and heart breaking and I pray you get your rainbow soon lovely. Have faith 💕

thank you so much and congratulations!! My first miscarriage was a mmc as well and I also had a d&c. I hope everything goes well ♥️

Your most welcome. Thanks so much lovely 💕 I'm so sorry to hear that, it's absolutely horrible to go through. I wish you all the luck in the world with your journey!! It is a trying time but as hard as it is hang in there 💕

One - I had a mmc a few months ago at 8 weeks.

5 so far for me and still waiting for my rainbow 🌈

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