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Midwife check

Can someone remind me when the midwife visits you at home? Is it the day after you’re discharged? And is that the same on the weekend or do they not visit then? Thanks!

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In my area it’s the day after discharge, including weekends!

Yeah a day after discharge, including weekends x

Mine visited the day after we were discharged, then day 5 after birth aswell. After that they rang me to discharge me from the midwife services, so I'm just under the health visitor now x

Day after check on us and baby, if you breast feed you may have the feeding team contact you to visit to offer support and the day 5 you’ll have weighing /prick test etc by midwife , then around 10 ish days health visitor

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