Starting menopause early

I started early menopause at the age of 40 and 7 years into it.

I've had every system mentioned.

I am wondering if anyone else started early?

I feel deprived of my youth.

How do you feel about it?

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I started at 33 and a half though I wasn't officially diagnosed until almost 37 as they kept telling me it was too early. Initially, I felt like I was on the scrap heap 🤦‍♀️ but working hard to change my mindset, HRT has helped massively with my symptoms as I really struggled with the emotional side of it and had terrible anxiety but after trying various HRT I'm starting to feel more like 'me' I'm trying to buy into the 'second spring' and push myself to get out of my comfort zone and make this as positive a change as I can xx

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BTW, it's not working yet 🙈🤣 I'm hoping to try and start a book club in January and maybe try and be more sociable 😑 my life is very much my husband and children but between them getting a little older and looking for more independence and the changes with myself I'm going to try to push myself to do more for me... that's the plan anyway!

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Gemma my sister has started a book which she highly recommended she says it hilarious with twists and turns wait for it “How to kill your family” I’ve ordered it lol xx

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Hi Melissa, I am 43. I totally understand how you feel. Even though, in my head, I feel young, I also feel old! It is difficult to explain but I do find it a little difficult at the moment.

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Thanks guys the book sounds interesting lol I really appreciate your comments as I know I'm not alone going through it on my own x thank you so much

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You are definitely not on your own. I am also happy to have found a group where I can discuss how I feel about it.

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Hi all , I went into menopause overnight following my hysterectomy at 42 i am now 48 and on HRT x

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HRT and Marina coil help me. X

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#helped x

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good early evening Annabelle I hope you have had an okay day I also feel old my brain tho still thinks it’s about 24 just before children those were the days lol my first child was the miracle my second was an accident my third was on purpose I love them all dearly they’re all good people Annabelle it does get better you are welcome to pick my brains as I’m 10 years older take care

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hello Claire I was wondering do you or sorry have you had all the symptoms do you experience everything all at once after your hysterectomy sorry to be rude Tia

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what symptoms do you mean ? Menopause ones ? Hell yes x

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thank you so much for your message. I am doing OK at the moment, which is good. I just dread when the symptoms will come back. Like you I feel young in my head but the menopause is a milestone in life, which has arrived too early! My gp has prescribed me patches. I am a bit worried of using them.

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