I hate belly touching at night

Is it just me or when your SO rests their hand on your belly or touches you while they’re sleeping it’s irritating as hell. Like I’m glad my bf wanna touch it cause he’s bonding but it hurts and it’s uncomfortable because he’s sleeping so the dead weight of his hand is hurting my stomach and I have to keep moving it. I don’t wanna be like stop touching me cause it’s not that I don’t want it, it just hurts. It’s like getting a ultrasound 😂

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i cant stand it either🤣 i feel so bad but he is always lifting up my shirt without my permission and its so annoying, i know he loves it so i try to ignore it when it’s bothering me but trust me ur not alone

YES. the worst

I guess I’m different 😂😂 I love everyone touching my belly lol I had a miscarriage before this and I’m currently 16w5d❤️

It's not his hand that irritates me at night it's his arm ugh it's so big and muscular 🥴🥴 it feels like a bag of rocks I have to tell him to lay his arm under the belly not over it bc I still want him to cuddle with me

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