First time mom issues

Ever since I became a mother, I get criticized for almost everything.

I breastfeed, and I constantly hear that “breast milk doesn’t fill the baby up” and that I should give formula.

I’m currently unable to work, and I hear things like, “This is America people don’t stay home with kids, put the baby in daycare,” even though I’ve applied and haven’t been approved yet.

My child feels safe enough to be herself when I’m around, and somehow that turns into, “The baby is too clingy you need to put her in daycare.”

When my baby cries, I drop everything to comfort her, and I’m told I shouldn’t do that because I’m “making her clingy.”

I didn’t grow up dreaming of becoming a mother, but God chose me to be this child’s mother, and I intend to give her all my love, care, time, and dedication. It is my mission.

I pray to God every day.

The life I imagined didn’t happen, but I am grateful for what I’ve learned in these past four months.

I’ve learned to speak softly. I’ve learned patience.

What more could I ask for?

Every day, I just thank God for sending me my little honey bun. 💛

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Girl fuck the odds your a good mom that’s all that matters . Fuck what every one else thinks

You love your baby and you’re giving her the very best. You feed her with the best you have: your breast milk. You dedicate all your time to her and show her she's not alone, that if she needs you, you’re there. I’m raising my 3-month-old the same way: breastfeeding, and I’m going to stay home as long as I can and as long as it’s needed. My partner works, and we prefer that our baby is with me rather than in daycare, paying a stranger to raise him. If you have the possibility to stay at home, it’s a privilege!

People always have something to say: if you take your baby to daycare, you’re a bad mother, if you don’t, you are too! If you bottle-feed, you’re bad, if you breastfeed, you are too! I don’t listen to others. I listen to my baby, who cries when he’s hungry or needs comfort, and I try to be there for him and show him that I love him and will always take care of him.
There’s advice we can learn from, but feeding and comforting are non-negotiable: they’re the best we can do for them. They’re so tiny, so defenseless, they need us! ❤️

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