Fertility and PCOS = overdrive to have a baby

My period is 9 days late and I took a test this morning….negative!!!! I’m so over this PCOS truly sucks

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

I went through that every month for a year. Plus miscarriages mood swings and acne. But I ended up getting pregnant by taking these Dr sebi vitamins called estro. Go to drsebicellfood. They were like 30 to 50 dollars I think? But it regulated my entire body my mood swings my cycle went back to a normal schedule my acne went away my pms symptoms. It says to take 4 a day but they were so strong I could only handle one a day chz my body was so off. But I got pregnant right after I took them. Just take them every single night before bed with food. My body regulated for about 3 months to healthy normal hormones and then I was able to really track down my ovulation with these sticks I got on Amazon for like 10 dollars. I got pregnant right after and I'm going on 3 months. Reviews on fb and YouTube from other women say it got them pregnant. But I strengthened my uterus with natural raspberry LEAF tea baths. That also helped my mood swings when I first was trying to regulate back to normal and cure my pcos.

I would bath in it once a day for 30 mins and drink it at the same time after my loss of my last baby.

in our community

I'm so not meant to be a mother.

My kids won't listen to me get into stuff when they know they aren't supposed to. Telling me no all the time. Only listen to their dad. Laughs when I correct them. I spend most of my time yelling at them because they don't want to listen to me at all. My husband said that I shouldn't have kids. And I am believing him on it. I was never meant to be a mother now. I won't hurt my kids I just want to disappear and make everyone else's lives better without me.

One and done… or not?

32ftm. I’m starting to feel so much pressure to have another baby soon as I wean from breastfeeding so they can be close in age and be friends, but I don’t feel ready for pregnancy and newborn trenches again 😭 my husband and I are all we’ve got. Having just one baby without a village has been really tough. Am I being unrealistic wanting another one soon?

Baby #2??

I really want baby number 2 and am thinking of doing it via IUI as a solo mama!
Has anyone had any experiences with it 👀

Tests

So I had a blood test at the drs bc I keep getting positive tests when the blood test was negative what could this mean? Hubby says the tests are negative and said he can’t see anything. Negative image down below.

Am I pregnant?

I lightly spotted almost 5 days ago, which is not common for me before my period.
My period was supposed to come today. I should have tested in the morning but its 5:30pm.
Is there a second line??

Anyone have this happen before?

We were not trying to conceive, used protection and had sex on week 2 of my cycle (accidentally on my peak ovulation day). Week 3 we had Flu A. Week 4 my period did not come (it’s very regular). I tested and it was negative (2 different brands).
What should have been week 2 of my next cycle (now 6 weeks post last period), I had light red/ pink spotting for one day when I wiped. The following week, I tested again, still negative, but this time almost all the dye was in the negative space, which I’ve never seen happen before. The area where it shows one horizontal line for negative and a plus sign for positive, the horizontal line was super faded at the 3 minute mark, and the negative vertical line in the next window was VERY dark. Now I’m on week 8 of all this, period did not show up yesterday. Nothing in my life has changed (no additional stress, no other illness, no changes in diet or exercise, etc).

Has anyone gone through this and NOT been pregnant? I’m super nervous as we thought we were done having kids.

PS. I know I should go get a blood test, does anyone know if urgent care will do that? I’m past being convinced by a pee test.