MUM FRIENDS/PLAY DATES/BABY GROUPS

Hello, I feel as though I am ready to pluck up the courage to venture out the house a bit more now my postpartum anxiety is starting to improve. I have a 4 month old daughter and would love for her to able to interact with other babies and I'd also love to make some mum friends 😅 Maternity leave can sometimes feel really lonely and I think it would benefit us both to get out and make some friends. Would anybody be up for meeting or know of any local baby clubs I could take my daughter to? 💟

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Gay relationships or transgender people being mentioned/ shown in children shows and movies

Are you uncomfortable with the topic of either being in children’s books or shows?

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RTW- Maternity Policy

I’m supposed to be returning to work in June however, don’t know if I want to yet. I’ve read in my maternity work policy that if I was entitled to enhanced maternity pay as well as statutory (which I was), if I leave my job while on maternity leave or within 3 months of being back then I will have to pay the enhanced maternity pay back to the company. Has anyone else experienced this and how do the payments work please?

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Sad Relationship with my Mom

Hello 💕

I'm feeling so lonely lately being in a new country without any family. I reach out to my mom daily, but we haven't been close since I was in high school. She's not very involved in my life nor my son's (2yr). We lived under the same roof until a few months ago, but even then, she mostly kept her distance. My grandma is very much the same and bed bound. I don't know what I expected, but I am so sad about it. I wish I had a mom, aunt, older sister, or unrelated older woman friend to talk to. I see these relationships on TV and they make me so sad (and a bit jealous). Is anyone else in a similar situation?

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Help ladies he wants to get me a toy

So he sent me a pic and told me pick since he won’t be here for 2 weeks 😂😂😂 and honestly I’m very broke so why not 😂😂 what should I get 😜😜😜 I just had rose but not really satisfying anymore 😂😂

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Are you ladies bothered by your man having many female friends that are apparently as neutral as their male friends?

He’s had most of these female friends long before I met him so it’s not that I want him to discontinue their friendship, I just wish he wouldn’t text them often and such. I don’t believe he hangs out with them or at least not like one on one.. should I just chill and not be insecure? Side note, I did see only one conversation where they were not romantic per se but flirtatious..

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