Toilet training

My daughter is 3 and still in nappies I try and get her to use the toilet at home but she won’t she will only use it at day care. We have gone through a huge change recently where the doctors have said not to make any huge changes as it landed her in hospital unable to walk witch is I know weird but psychologically huge changes can affect a child physically not just mentally and emotionally (long story behind the huge change) I just over buying so many nappies honestly. How do I get her to use the toilet at home

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I started toilet training when my bub was 2 years old. It was the same thing as yours. She wanted to wear nappy at home.
So I brought up at daycare just a casual talk with the educator while she was there and the educator told her that she needed to be off nappy completely and can’t have one nappy today and no nappy the other day and so on. So whenever she tried to argue with me at home, I just told her “remember miss nicole and miss dia said you need to be off nappy completely etc”
And she listened. Kids are more brave and stubborn with us because they are comfortable around us hence why they love to do argument with us. But with a little help from outside, you could do it!
Hope this helps!

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