So my partners dad side of the family I don’t get along with as well as I do his mums side of the family. There isn’t any issues I just have a better relationship with his mum and their side of the family. So my birthday was about a week ago and his mums family gave me gifts, birthday cards, spent time with me etc. His dads side however didn’t even get me a birthday card, nothing at all.. bare in mind I’ve made the effort my end to get hampers for them all for their birthdays, gave them money for their birthdays, brought loads of gifts. It just shocked me when I didn’t even get a £1 birthday card and it made me feel even more that they don’t like me… my partner didn’t even notice until I pointed it out to him today and he told me they may have just forgot even though he told them all on the day it was my birthday? I don’t ever ask or expect much but when I just gave birth 5 weeks ago to their nieces / granddaughter it would’ve been nice to just show me some appreciation. Am I being too petty?
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Nah your feelings are valid Fr bc if it was me I would’ve never given them anything ever again