Unsupervised naps at 2 months old?

Is everyone still letting baby nap in the same room as them or is anyone letting them nap elsewhere with the monitor on? My baby definitely wakes up more when I am in the room because he can smell my milk!

Obviously at night he sleeps in our room

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Lol if mine would sleep not on me or longer than 10mins I would and just keep popping in!

We’ve been leaving our boy in the next to me with the monitor on since he was about a week old for some of his naps and he sleeps so well that way. We have a big dog so I feel way more comfortable with him in the bedroom with the door closed. I don’t take my eyes off the monitor, and as we’re in a flat I’m literally in the next room no matter where I am haha.
Do whatever you’re comfortable with as long as baby is in a safe space!

I have been putting my little one down for naps in her big cot to get her used to the space with the monitor on Xx

Wish I had one of these babies!!

I’m the same, if I’m around he wants contact naps only but when he’s with my partner he will sleep in the downstairs crib. Making me think it’s because he can smell my breast milk!

Thanks everyone. We are going to trial it and see how he gets on. I just want to make sure he’s getting enough sleep because at the minute he’s definitely not!

If Ben is napping upstairs happily I pop the monitor on and I go downstairs to have some 'me tome'
He stirs, I leave him for a minute or two and if he starts screaming I go o hi. But if he's just fidgeting I leave him be

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