quick question!!

so have y’all really waited the whole 6 weeks before having sex w your partner??

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I haven’t had sex since February because I had some pregnancy complications yeah my BF won’t have sex until after the 6 weeks.

Debating. It’s been 4 weeks. I stopped bleeding completely at 2 weeks, i am able to go with out wearing panties so it’s back to normal. And I’m not sore I feel great. So I’m like uhhh 2 more weeks for what ?🤔🤔 but also scared to mess anything up my not waiting

Personally, I had a 3rd degree tear with 13 stitches so I may take 8 weeks. Yesterday was my 1 month appt with my obgyn and he prescribed birth control & said to wait 2 more weeks. Talk to your OB and listen to your body because everyone is different.

Absolutely! I’m not worrying about infection or pregnancy. I honestly don’t know why anyone would risk it.

I'm waiting more than 6 weeks! 😅 Everyone's sleep deprived over here! Lol What I really want is sleep, that's what I can't wait to get! And what I can't seem to get enough of.😆

Lol I didn’t wait 😬 I have my 6 week apt Tuesday but I had sex twice the last week… I was bleeding too .. call it stupid but I needed some loving.😅

i love to hear it lol! 😂

I haven’t had my baby yet but definitely waiting AT LEAST 6 weeks. I think the risk of infection overpowers any horniness lol. It is not worth it in my opinion.

I started again at 3 weeks postpartum. I was using protection though. It all depends on your body and how you are healing.

I waited until 3 wks lol

i had a second degree tear, wanted and tried my very best to wait 6 weeks.. i have in just once a couple days before 4 weeks 😅 we’re now just about 5 weeks though!

It's been 6 weeks for me already, but I will wait until I get my IUD inserted (in 4 days). I feel bad for my boyfriend because he's been wanting it so bad. We didn't have too much sexy time during the whole pregnancy, and I thought we're going downhill, but it seemed like he was just not comfortable having sex knowing there's a baby inside.

I waited like 3-4 months after my first & will probably do that again! Just didn’t feel ready & my husband would never push me 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’m so touched out by the end of the day that it’s the last thing on my mind 😅

lol same

ha girl 😂 I’m trying to hold out

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