40 weeks + 2

I feel horrible. I’m so upset about being past due & all I can do I cry… I genuinely just don’t want to be pregnant anymore. I want to hold my baby. I want to be comfortable in my skin… I’m exhausted. I’m getting no sleep because I am so uncomfortable & my hips hurt soooo bad , my stomach has moments where it’s soooo hard & stiff I don’t know what to do 😩… I’m miserable & I feel so lonely. It just makes me so upset when people call for an update & there’s nothing to tell … I just feel like these last few days have thrown me into a deep depression& I hate it for myself & baby.

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It’s hard when you go over and you just want it to end. Hang in there, your baby will be with you soon. I told all family ahead of time to not call and ask if baby was here as it makes it worse. Try and relax and do things for you. Have a bath, watch tv, eat nice food etc.

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Ah bless you! I remember those last weeks / days, I felt so sick and tired of pregnancy! I didn’t go over, but days before birth were really testing me…

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I hope everything gets better for you.. I was 40 weeks and 5 days. They finally induced me cause my water was leaking and I didn’t even know it.. I’d talk to dr about inducing if it’s that bad.. I know some moms want to go all natural but I’d rather be induced than ever go over 40 weeks and 5 days again

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I feel like you've written my story word for word! I was a mess in the last few days, baby came at 40+5! I couldn't relax or focus on anything, just wanted baby to be here and have my body back but I knew I had labour to go through first. I think it's our bodies way of convincing our minds that giving birth is a good idea! You'll look back on this with a wry smile, I promise! Xx

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I went to 41 weeks it’s uncomfortable mama but you got it I also was induced so I could of went way longer and my son was also born small with being over full term

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I know that feeling too well, i was in such excruciating pain at the end! I had my baby girl at 40+5. My only advice is try to think positive! Natural oxytocin will do wonders, try to do something that you enjoy! As much as it sucked getting to that point at the end, i was happy my body naturally went into labour, baby girl was much happier throughout the whole labour process. What got me through was thinking that no matter what, we were less than a week and a half away from holding my girl. It’s all worth it the second you see them. Wishing you a quick and smooth delivery!!

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Put your phone on do not disturb, I did that at the end so I could reply to text/calls on my own terms or if/when I felt like it! Look after yourself xx

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Schedule something nice
for yourself every day- a coffee date with friends, seeing a movie, getting your nails done, whatever could distract you. That way each day you have a distraction to look forward to and if you go into labor then whatever if you missed a massage or a dinner with friends!

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Loneliness

I didn’t know whether to write this or not, as I really don’t even know what to do at this point. I’ve been really struggling with the constant feeling of loneliness and just feeling like the whole world is just going past and I’m not even apart of it anymore.

I have friends that I have lost since becoming a mum or even major shifts in friendships. I’ve got 1 mum friend who is amazing and I’m so thankful for her.

However, I can’t help but feel this constant loneliness. I just feel like no one gets it and no one can see it. I try and open up. But no one seems to understand.

I find it really hard to make friends I have done all my life. But now I’m finding it especially hard. I have joined in with baby groups in the local area and yet everyone is already friends or in the clicks. I find when I start conversations it’s shut down very quickly. I just honestly can’t stand it.

Everything is just building up on top of me and it’s really starting to affect my mental health.
I honestly don’t know what to do

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Useless

I want to change career when I go back to work I’ve been saying it since ive been pregnant and my baby is now 5 months old. The problem is I don’t know what to do and my partner is nagging at me constantly saying you don’t want to do anything there’s nothing you like when ever he suggests a course that’s going to save us money or bring in money and it’s really getting me down making me useless. I’m just content don’t have any hobbies, not into jewellery, clothes, bags etc like most girls.
But it’s making me feel bad because he’s a lorry driver working 60+ hours a week and I’m not putting anything in to help him out.

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Sex problem

Been seeing someone 3 months. We have sex once a week/couple weeks, haven’t been having that much sex. Once every week/couple weeks. And last few rimes hes not been able to get it up and when he does he cums in like 5-10 seconds. I dont know im quite a sexual person. Just not sure if its kind of turned off me abit feel bad saying that

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I like the thought of my partner cheating/being intimate with another women. I wouldn’t say it’s a fetish but it’s enough for me to get off on it if I wanted to.

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Do I test my partners loyalty or leave?

I don’t trust my partner and I think he maybe cheating. I’ve had my suspicions also things has happened in the past (messaging girls, been on dating sites, only fans etc) anyway I’ve tried going on his phone but his password has changed, I’ve tried having a conversation with him but he accuses me🤯 I’m tired of all this and being made to feel worthless but I also need some clarity…

My question is would I be wrong to ask someone to message my partner and test his loyalty or just up and leave?🤔

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