Is it just me or…

Anyone else feels since they had a kid no one wants to be your friend anymore

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It depends. My old friends, yeah kinda. But ive met a couple people on here that i feel have the potential to be very good friends!

I have been friends with these one for years and they just changed like I get I have a kid now but I can still be me I’m just a mom now so they just stopped completely talking to me or just make excuses

I feel like it hasn’t changed much for me however I have on my end just decided to hangout more with my friends that are moms because we are going through it all together! But I still check in on friends that aren’t mamas it’s just nice to go through the mom experience with people that understand! And I think some friends that aren’t moms we just don’t talk as much just because we are both so busy

Exactly!!

Yes. I was actually told by some people they don't plan for them to be around after I had my son. I respect the heads up ig cause I wouldn't be guessing pp if they wanted to be around but I also was 22 when my son was born and alot of them aren't in relationships or married with kids so I do get it. But the people who stuck around are amazin

I feel like I have kinda distanced myself from most of my friends after having my baby. I became super introverted and have enjoyed it just being baby and I and his dad. I know it probably isn’t good to isolate myself, but I’m guessing it’s temporary.

Oh yeah a lot of people just stopped talking to me some won’t even open any messages I sent. It’s fine though we are just on different paths.

in our community

When our daughters are grown

Are we teaching them that circumcised boys are dirty and unclean?

You’re at the check out and notice the cashier gives you senior citizen discount. You’re very clearly under the cut off. Would you be excited for the extra savings or offended?

Turns out Monday morning at my Kroger and the lady slipped it in without saying anything. This has happened to my mom before and we were both obviously happy with a random discount but one of my sisters in law said she’d die if that happened to her because she’d be so embarrassed 😂

Something you’d never buy second hand?

What is something you’d never buy second hand and can’t believe people do. For me it’s clearly very worn shoes or mattresses🥴

Childcare Funding help

So my LO is under 2 and goes to nursery 2 full days a week. Me and husband both worked and got the 30 government funded hours. However my husband has recently lost his job of 8 years due to the company going under.

The worst part is he lost his job the day before I gave birth to our second child. So now I'm on rubbish maternity pay and he's got no earnings.

I'm wondering if we still entitled to any funded hours or not? I just don't want my LO to lose his place as obviously my husband is trying to get a job and when I go back to work we will need the childcare.

Has anyone been in this situation? Is there a grace period? Tyia!

Marriage struggles

Can someone who has had bad marriage problems before and gotten through it message me? I feel so alone in the situation I'm in and can't talk to my family about it and my unmarried friends are no help. Saying "just leave" is not helpful. If you can relate please comment so I can message you. I just really need either advice or just someone to talk to. Thanks 🩵

Has your child(ren) ever made an unauthorized purchase on one of your accounts?

I left my son to watch tv alone in my room while I switched the laundry over and not 2 minutes went by before I got a notification thanking me for a 1 year peacock subscription of $116.

Luckily Roku refunded me and I’ve since added a pin but now I know it really is that easy for kids to make quick and expensive purchase without us knowing.