Is it just me or…

Anyone else feels since they had a kid no one wants to be your friend anymore

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It depends. My old friends, yeah kinda. But ive met a couple people on here that i feel have the potential to be very good friends!

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I have been friends with these one for years and they just changed like I get I have a kid now but I can still be me I’m just a mom now so they just stopped completely talking to me or just make excuses

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I feel like it hasn’t changed much for me however I have on my end just decided to hangout more with my friends that are moms because we are going through it all together! But I still check in on friends that aren’t mamas it’s just nice to go through the mom experience with people that understand! And I think some friends that aren’t moms we just don’t talk as much just because we are both so busy

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Exactly!!

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Yes. I was actually told by some people they don't plan for them to be around after I had my son. I respect the heads up ig cause I wouldn't be guessing pp if they wanted to be around but I also was 22 when my son was born and alot of them aren't in relationships or married with kids so I do get it. But the people who stuck around are amazin

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I feel like I have kinda distanced myself from most of my friends after having my baby. I became super introverted and have enjoyed it just being baby and I and his dad. I know it probably isn’t good to isolate myself, but I’m guessing it’s temporary.

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Oh yeah a lot of people just stopped talking to me some won’t even open any messages I sent. It’s fine though we are just on different paths.

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My two friends and me have always been close since our early teens. I’m the first to have a baby.

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