Non-stop crying🥲

My LO is 3 weeks old in two days, normally he sleeps most of the day away and only cries for a feed or some love. Recently we changed his milk to anti-reflux & regurgitation due to him projectile vomiting every feed.

Since this, he’s only been passing a single poop the size of a 50p and they’ve been quite solid. I’m waiting until Monday to ask for some advice as I think his constipated.

However this morning he’s passing poop as normal and they’re no longer solid but he’s been screaming and crying for no reason even after I’ve done everything I can to try and settle him. I’m not sure if he’s in pain but it really does seem like it, that’s the only other thing I can think of and I just don’t know how to help him😩

The GP opens tomorrow but it’s a slim chance I’ll be able to get an appointment. Does anyone have any advice?

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Be careful he’s not too hot. That blanket looks quite thick and he may be uncomfy! Over heating is not good better for them to be slightly colder
He’s very cute x

My 2 week old just did this too!! We started giving him infacol and it’s working wonders !! X

He was naked and just got put into the bed in the morning😅 This pic is from when it was cooler too just after being fed- we were awake. Thankyou for your advice though, it could save someone’s LO one day x

I’ve already been giving him infacol and anti-colic bottles but it’s not doing anything xx

Have you noticed any consistencies with his unsettling? Mine at that age was very unsettled for roughly 2-3 hours between 6-10pm. If he was settled during those hours, he’d be unsettled between 1-5am. It’s all to do with their sensory development if so. X

Not as of yet, it’s only been today x

I've just gone through this.. we are four weeks n it's easing. I think the heat didn't help.
Was feeding every 2 hrs even if he drank it all or only some. I've started adding a probiotic to his milk...

I'm sure it's development, weather life outside it's alot for them for sure.

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