Over tired baby

Wondered if anyone has any tips or suggestions…
My baby usually has her first nap at 9. She likes to sleep for an hour and a half in the morning but sometimes we have our baby class or I have to be out so I have to wake her up. She gets soo fussy/upset if I wake her up around 30 mins after and I can tell she wants to go to sleep. The problem is if I’m out and about she won’t sleep because she is interested in everything going on whereas in the past I could bounce or rock her and she’d fall asleep when we were out. (She’s 4 months). I wondered if anyone has any tips, I’m finding whenever I’m out and she’s tired she’s just so cranky and I end up leaving to come home.

I’m also finding breastfeeding trickier now when I’m in public as she pulls off the boob has a good look around then wants to go back on. I’m fine with her doing that at home but I don’t fancy sitting there exposed 😂 any tips for this? I’m hoping it’s a phase!

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