6 month old heart murmur

My little boy just had his 6 month wellness check and they discovered a heart murmur, any other Mammas out there have been through this, Im so nervous.

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My eldest has one, it was picked up when he was 18 months old and it was quite large so not sure how it'd ever been missed. He's now 6. He had yearly check ups at the Freeman hospital in Newcastle. His is a secundum atrial septal defect (hole in heart). His has slowly been closing over the years but still isn't quite there yet. He's not symptomatic and if it hasn't closed when he's 10 they'll look at device closure.

I was at my six week checkup with my son and I found out he has a soft systolic heart murmur which sounds normal then has some whooshing sounds as well in his heart I’m terrified and waiting on tests this month

we are waiting on a call from the childrens hospital cardiologist, I am so scared, I'm trying to stay positive but it's hard, I hope everything goes well for your little one.

that makes me feel a bit better, thank you

This happened to us - we saw a cardiac specialist and had an echo and other tests. It was proven to be an “innocent heart murmur” which most are, they have no symptoms but will probably say that you should mention it during appointments/if you get a new doctor. My son’s sounds very high pitched and tinny so they couldn’t rule it as normal without further investigation. I know it’s scary, stay positive ❤️

they said his was high pitched too, I'm glad it wasn't anything serious for your little one, I'm trying my best to be positive 🩷

Thankyou makes it hard when he’s 2 months he’s been doing tummy time since he was 2 weeks old and now we have to limit that. He’s still a very happy boy growing and eating etc at his 120mls of formula so it’s fascinating but at the same time I’m a scared mum and he also needs a helmet therapy for his head now

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Anyone else up feeding their Bebe?

As above. Trying so hard to keep my eyes open

Is this normal??

I’m 29 weeks pregnant and having really aching legs and they’re all lumpy and swollen. Above the knee and behind the knee . Should I be worried ? My legs have never looked like this up until a few days ago. ??

Induction experience

I just wanted to share my experience with being induced as I wasn’t sure what to expect and thought it may help others.

I opted for the foley balloon which was inserted at 8am Saturday morning, I had to stay in hospital due to hypertension and protein urine however usually you can just go home once this has been done. The insertion of the balloon was not painful, was slightly uncomfortable as there was slight pressure. I actually found having the cervix checked prior to be worse (again not painful at this point just uncomfortable) The balloon had little effect and after having it removed I was still only 1cm. Removal also was pain free and hardly even noticeable.

I then had my first dose of the gel and definitely noticed a difference, I started experiencing period like cramps almost immediately however they were light and manageable. After 6 hours I had another cervix check and although my cervix was soft it was still only 1cm and was only open at the front. I had another dose of the gel and felt an increase in pressure and more intense cramping where I now required pain relief (codeine). After another 6 hours I had another cervix check and I had now dilated to 2-3cm however was still quite difficult to get all the way through so a third gel was recommended which I agreed to.

Almost immediately I noticed the difference and was in considerable pain, I had paracetamol and codeine however the contractions had now become intense and a lot closer together (around 3 minutes apart). After a couple of hours I had my last cervix check and was 4cm and taken down to the Labour ward to have my waters broken and an epidural.

I had been in my room for approx 20minutes when my waters broke by themselves and I was now 10cm and actively pushing…. There was no time for the epidural and my beautiful girl arrived into the world within 2 minutes of pushing.

All in all I would say the cramps/contractions were manageable up until the third gel where it became pretty unbearable however it was for a very short time a gas and air helped take the edge off. The worst part about any of it was actually the later cervix checks where after stimulating the cervix my contractions were at their most painful.

If I had to be induced again I would skip the balloon and opt for the gels immediately as thy had a quicker effect and I would have been out a lot sooner if I had done this to begin with.

One more thing, I’ve never believed when people say “you forget the pain once they’re here” but I can honestly say this is true. It’s been 4 days and I would do it all again in a heartbeat.

Anyone else experiencing this?

Gave birth (vagina) 5 days ago and yesterday morning and this morning getting lot of pain in my right bottom side and lower back

Doctors appt horror stories

I got peed on at my one month olds doctors appointment and I wanted to see if others had similar experiences. It was just hilarious but also like whyyyy! Also jeez those doctors seem to be so rough when they’re pressing on the baby’s stomach and just moving them around checking their muscles and stuff.

Exercise 6 weeks after c section

What movement did people start to introduce? I won’t do anything too vigorous until I’ve seen the pelvic physio as I don’t want to compromise anything that may have been extremely weakened through pregnancy! But just wondering what types of classes/movement people started off with?