Losing friends

Anyone else feel like they’re losing friends left, right and centre?? I feel like people just can’t be bothered anymore, when my baby was a newborn everyone was there, visiting, asking how she is. Now she’s 9 months they’ve all disappeared. Idk what the point of this is, just feel a bit lonely and very friendless 🙃

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Sorry to hear your feeling this way! If there not going to make the effort they are not worth being in your life. I no that’s hard to see now as I went through a similar thing. Remember your worth, people should want to make effort with both you and your baby! I’m sure new friends will walk into your life that will be supportive and nice and want to spend time with you both. Hope this helps xx

Thanks girls, I think I’m just having a bit of a down day and feeling a bit sad. I just wish people would be consistent for my girls sake 😅

My inbox is open I feel the exact same 🫶

I live far from my friends now and they’re all working and living their own baby free lives so I haven’t really seen anyone. Only when I do big events for my baby 😅 I know what you mean. I live in a new area so I’ve been trying to make friends locally but it’s hard when you’re not working, I go to baby classes and have made 2 friends so far

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Good morning! Can anyone relate to this!

My two friends and me have always been close since our early teens. I’m the first to have a baby.

One friend has big house, career and boyfriend

Other out of a long term relationship and being single having fun etc

Before baby we would all hang at my
Apartment, chat eat and just have
Fun.

Now I don’t even get a text to ask how my baby is, how I am. I really thought they would be awesome aunties. But honestly they don’t care.

They meet up a lot to do cool things, which I can’t be upset about as I can’t as I have my baby.

I don’t know I feel sad about it.

Am I over reacting?

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