TTC Baby#1 Conceiving your first after miscarriage(s)🌸

Scared to test

Had a missed miscarriage in March at 12 weeks. Have been TTC ever since with no joy. Every month I test and feel so let down when I don’t see a BFP.

I’m on cycle day 35. On average my period comes on day 32 however the latest it has come has been cycle day 34.(one occasion)

When would be the best time to test I am 20 DPO today

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What were your symptoms of a missed miscarriage? I have had 3 miscarriages within a year and now I’m 11 wks but all I can think about is a missed miscarriage

Hi I had absolutely no symptoms with my missed miscarriage. I had morning sickness, tiredness, increased appetite weight gain, everything you would expect with early pregnancy. Went for my 12 week scan only to find out that there was no heartbeat. 💔by meassuring the size they calculated that the heart would have stopped just a few days before the scan 💔 it was the last thing I expected. I didn’t even know what a missed miscarriage was before it happened to me.

Wishing you all the best try not to worry about it at all. Everything will be fine💗

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I'm so not meant to be a mother.

My kids won't listen to me get into stuff when they know they aren't supposed to. Telling me no all the time. Only listen to their dad. Laughs when I correct them. I spend most of my time yelling at them because they don't want to listen to me at all. My husband said that I shouldn't have kids. And I am believing him on it. I was never meant to be a mother now. I won't hurt my kids I just want to disappear and make everyone else's lives better without me.

Tests

So I had a blood test at the drs bc I keep getting positive tests when the blood test was negative what could this mean? Hubby says the tests are negative and said he can’t see anything. Negative image down below.

Am I pregnant?

I lightly spotted almost 5 days ago, which is not common for me before my period.
My period was supposed to come today. I should have tested in the morning but its 5:30pm.
Is there a second line??

Anyone have this happen before?

We were not trying to conceive, used protection and had sex on week 2 of my cycle (accidentally on my peak ovulation day). Week 3 we had Flu A. Week 4 my period did not come (it’s very regular). I tested and it was negative (2 different brands).
What should have been week 2 of my next cycle (now 6 weeks post last period), I had light red/ pink spotting for one day when I wiped. The following week, I tested again, still negative, but this time almost all the dye was in the negative space, which I’ve never seen happen before. The area where it shows one horizontal line for negative and a plus sign for positive, the horizontal line was super faded at the 3 minute mark, and the negative vertical line in the next window was VERY dark. Now I’m on week 8 of all this, period did not show up yesterday. Nothing in my life has changed (no additional stress, no other illness, no changes in diet or exercise, etc).

Has anyone gone through this and NOT been pregnant? I’m super nervous as we thought we were done having kids.

PS. I know I should go get a blood test, does anyone know if urgent care will do that? I’m past being convinced by a pee test.