Has anyone had their bpd used against them by medical staff

Wait like they want to reassess your diagnosis? If you have evidence that backs you up I don't see why they would want to do that unless you're showing symptoms of something else... even then co-morbidity is so common

I've had irregular bloods. I'm waiting on surgery and a list of symptoms my transplant team are now saying that the symptoms don't match the known diagnosis and so it's probably psychological. They haven't told me just my specialist nurse. The thing is even she agreed every symptom I have other the the irritability is linked with the surgery I'm waiting for. I feel so hurt. They've never mentioned it until now. X

I'm irritable because they said 2-3 months for surgery and ice waited 4 with no support from anyone. I've been let down by everyone including social services (was asked to provide respite care for my children due to my physical health). X

So they don't believe your physical symptoms because you have BPD, that's absolutely disgusting. I have Endometriosis and have been told many times that my symptoms are phycological or my own fault. Stay strong Mumma. Maybe see if you can get a second opinion or if not contact a disability advocacy group