Currently pregnant with baby #2. I’ve moved mountains to try to have baby #2.
However now that I’m pregnant I don’t feel excited.
I just feel meh. I’m wishing that I waited. I’m against abortions and don’t think I could ever do adoption as it’s apart of me out there and I’d always be wondering “what if.” How do I get over this feeling?😔
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Is there anything specific making you feel this way? How come you wish you waited? X
I’m not sure. Idk if it’s the stress of having two kids , being single , I can’t say why tbh. It’s just a feeling :(

I’m so sorry you feel like that. I’m here for a chat if you need. If you want baby then have baby (do you have plenty of support if needed?). If you don’t want baby then you don’t have too 🫶🏻

Assumptions get you in trouble but how is your mental health? Mental health was a major factor for me in trying for #2 when it finally got there I acted happy but wasn’t real. I kept telling myself it was just until I got past the first trimester and then it still didn’t come. I still have guilt over it but I’m all honesty, I was struggling so hard and didn’t realize it.