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Hey guys I’m near to this and I’m looking at some play dates to get to know some mummy’s out there and their little ones around my sons age.

So hi I’m Pattie, at first I’m shy when we meet but once you get to know me you’ll see I’m just made up of a million shattered pieces of gold. I care too much but I’m also very protective of your feelings once I have established a friendship but I am brutally honest, I’m just the one who will tell you what you need to hear not what you want.

I was recently diagnosed with C-PTSD so I am not only learning other people’s feelings I am also learning my own so please do not take offence to me over analysing everything it is just how my brain works and I’m working to control that.

I have a son named Charlie, he will be turning 2 in December (geez has time flown) and it would be nice to have some friends for his birthday to just spend time with him.

I’m also wondering if there are also mummy friends out there who has their baby dads involved who like to play Xbox games or pc games so that my partner could socialise a little more as well. He works but has Monday’s and sundays off if we aren’t doing stuff or have a dungeons and dragons game on.

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Hi Pattie I'm Hanna my son is 2 on Xmas eve. And we would like some more friends to. What is your location. If we are not to far apart we can have a playdate with the boys.

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Omg yay!! I’m kallangur hunny how about yourself?

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