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Unfortunately, we have had some heartbreaking news and found out at 14 weeks that baby has a chromosomal abnormality, and last night, we came to the devastating choice of ending the pregnancy which will take place in the next couple of weeks. TFMR is an acronym I hoped I would never need to know about, let alone experience. If anyone has been in this same situation and is happy to talk to me, please comment so I can private message you. I'd really appreciate any support right now 💔

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I had a miscarriage at just over 14 weeks last month not sure if that helps but feel free to message x

I’m so sorry. Sending you love and strength for your little one 💕 I hope you’re ok and recover through this heartbreaking ordeal x

Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry 😞💔 sending you lots of support 💕 xx

Gosh I’m so sorry. 😔 That’s such a hard and brave decision to make. Sending you and family love and be kind to yourself over the next week

I’ve just come across your post as I have also come to learn the term TFMR this week :( ..I hope that you found the strength and guidance that you were looking for to get through this horrible situation. Please get in touch if you’d like to talk about your experience. I’m only at the start of mine, but I also know from previous experiences that it is sometimes when everything is said and done, that you need the support the most x

@LMK I'm so sorry for your loss too 🤍. Sorry for the very late reply. I've been off peanut for the last 3 months since dealing with all of this and am now only starting to have the strength to be here. Happy to connect if that still suits you x

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