Missed miscarriage

I had my 12 week scan last week and I was told my baby had stopped growing at 9 weeks, I’ve decided to let my body deal with this naturally and not take any medication or surgery, I’m just wondering how long it has taken other people to start bleeding if they have let their body deal with it naturally?

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My first one. It had been 6 weeks and nothing had happened so I opted for the MVA/D&C, i

My second, was about 3/4 weeks till I started bleeding and I won’t lie to you it was absolutely horrendous.

Be careful with the D&/C it can cause scarring like it did for me & infertility later on & they play this risk down...do 5 minutes of research & it will show you a D&C is bad..there scrapping u out with a sharp object there are risks.
2nd miscarrage i went for the tablets as they scarred me with the D&C previously was very hard as it took weeks..3/4 weeks for everything to come away naturally.i had to go for a weekly scan until it had but so much better for you to do it naturally.

I was informed when I made my decision. I was completely comfortable with my decision.

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