Advise?

So I’m basically 9 weeks pregnant I’ve had a scan last week my pregnancy symptoms have seem to go no sickness nothing I no longer feel pregnant my tests are still showing positive.I’ve had no bleeding I have slight pain but because I’ve had no bleeding hospital won’t see to me what I totally understand I’ve had a previous of silence misscarriage. I’m just wondering if anyone has been through this?

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Hospitals are horrible with it. I had a missed miscariage earlier in the year and am currently 25 weeks pregant now. At 9 weeks with this pregnacy I felt the same, my symptoms seemed to ease off to almost nothing (like breast tenderness gone, nausea gone, fatigue gone), had intermittent cramps just like the first miscariage but again, no bleeding so the hosptial kept turning me away. I remember the last time I went in, all they said was "if you start bleeding grab us so you don't lose the foetus in the waiting room". They were disgusting.

Baby was all good though. Apparently I had a tear somewhere which was causing the cramping on and off. Have you got an EPAS you can go too? Though they also turned me away as they were busy, it got me in as priority at other ultrasound places to confirm what was happening and you dont want/need anymore stress.

I lost all symtoms at around 9wks and was worried so hospital booked a scan as i had previous MC or if you are financially able to book a private scan that will ease yourmind. Call early pregnant ward and ask if they will see you if you are worried. I was absolutely fine and now have a healthy 20mth old and was told symtoms come and go. Sure its all fine

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