Ffs …. Am I pregnant again?! 🤦🏻‍♀️ 😅

Hey everyone,

So I have the most perfect little angel of a 5 month old baby girl, however did she beat the absolute F out of my while she was cooking inside me 😅😅

I’m on the pill, but I’ll hold my hands up; im a bit hit and miss at remembering to take it. Not completely awful, but I’ll miss one MAYBE two nights a week.

Anywhooooo, baba was born my emergency c-section. At about 2 months PP, I had a very short for me (2/3 days) of bleeding, my nurse said it was my period. Ok great. Then about 3 weeks later I had some very, very slight bleeding. Like, barely enough to warrant noticing, for a day.

Im now coming up on 3 months without a proper period. Im going to go and get a test tomorrow to get a better idea. But just wondering what you guys thought?

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Definitely worth testing, even taking one pill a few hours late can reduce the effectiveness and allow a pregnancy to occur.

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wow! You sure are a pleasant person.

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there’s no way for anyone on here to know..? irregular bleeding is common after having a baby. but you’ve had unprotected sex, so take a test. that’s the only way to know

if you don’t want another baby take your pill properly and stop messing around.

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Wow there’s some pleasant people on here 🤦🏼‍♀️ no need to be so rude or judgey, I’m sure 1) she was just having a bit of a rant/talking things out somewhere where she should feel safe and 2) may be looking for people who have been in similar situations.
I haven’t had a period since LG was born 4 months ago doesn’t mean I’m pregnant again. Hormones etc change after birth.

Anyway, best thing to do is take a test and ring the drs. Hope all goes well 😊

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I take all my meds (including contraceptive pill when I was on it) at the same time each day - when I brush my teeth so it's an automatic trigger to do it and don't even have to think about it.

If you're missing it that often it doesn't sound like a good choice of contraceptive for you and that it would be worth considering other types of contraception that might be better suited to you x

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I’m assuming it’s a good thing I didn’t see Amys comment?

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I was in the implant before, but I bled everyday for just over a year. My iron levels, etc didn’t take as big of a hit as you might expect but I just didn’t want to go through that again. I’ve booked in to enquire about the coil or injection

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“messing around” 🤣🤣🤣

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as other people have said, irregular bleeding after pregnancy is normal for a few months. But cheers for the input, greatly appreciated 😂

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So as you’re all such caring people, and have such a deep genuine concern for my well being …. I took 3 tests, not pregnant. Spoke with my PHN today, told me not to worry is I’m only 5 months and it can take up to a year for everything to be back in order.

But again, thank you all for your sparkling demonstrations of sisterhood 😘

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It can be so hard to find a contraception that works for you x

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if you’re missing 1-2 pills a week yeah you’re messing around lol

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maybe when you grow up and have your own responsibilities get back to me 😘

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I took three yesterday, all good 👍🏻

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😂😂😂 talking about “grow up” and you can’t even take birth control properly, posting on here “ffs am i pregnant again?” 5 months PP. sounds like you need to grow up

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Yes, she was unnecessarily rude, she also seems to have blocked me or deleted her profile, she doesn’t seem to exist any more. 🤷🏽‍♀️. Buh-bye !! We don’t need rudey-trudys around here

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