I just found a French manicure looking false nail in my babies changing bag. I don't wear fake nails, nor do I know anyone who wears fake nails. Do you think my fiance could be cheating?
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Does baby go to day care?
@Jo no. The only people who have had access to my babies changing bag is me and my fiance. X

How often do you leave him alone with the baby/bag? If he’s had opportunity for someone to be there then I’d blow up, but I’m toxic 😬
Could it have fallen in from a stranger passing by? People drop all sorts all the time.
@Jo I'm so confused because he doesn't take our baby out on his own hardly ever. He has taken our baby out to his mums about 3 times on his own in the past but that's about it I think 🤔 (and our baby is 15 months old now) i doubt someone's fake nail would of fallen into the changing bag if they was just passing by. It's a mystery. Obviously I'm going to ask my fiance later but he isnt going to admit to anything anyway 🙄 I just find it so weird!

That’s pretty sus. I’d have a hard time letting that go
@Lani I know! I can't stop thinking about it and asking myself if anyone I know has been in the bag, but they really haven't. But then I don't want to start accusing him of cheating when it could be something innocent 😕

If he's gone to his mums, could it not be hers? Or someone's who was there?
@Leanne his mum doesn't wear fake nails either. And he hasn't got any other family nearby that would of been there. Its definitely not from being at his mums house.

Could it be from when you’re out and about and putting things into the bag? Like maybe it attached itself to an item of clothing that you picked up from a changing table or something?

Does the bag have a zip? I have shot nails across the room because sometimes I’m quite agressive lol not saying it’s likely but there is a possibility it could have come off a complete stranger while you were out

I would have a conversation with him. Ask him if he’s had anyone around the baby, and then explain to him what you found in the bag and how it’s made you feel uneasy and confused. You haven’t got to accuse him of anything or get angry. I think your gut will be able to tell you pretty quickly if something is up from how he reacts to that conversation

My son’s dad (we’re not together) went to a Target once and realized he didn’t have diapers in the diaper bag anymore and asked a random mom who helped him out. All she had was like a size 5 or something so they did some weird stuff to make it work 😂 I could see a scenario like this where a woman was just helping your fiance and absentmindedly lost a nail in the process. I know it’s unlikely but hopefully this story may put your mind at ease a bit!

I can’t say this would be my first thought/reaction. Is there a reason (more than the nail) that you suspect this? I would suggest asking if he has any knowledge of it and going from there

Any update? 🤔