Pregnant for the first time and dr appointments are a struggle for me.
I think my anxiety, rejection sensitivities and demand avoidance makes it hard. I can't just blindly accept what the Drs want me to do because I feel like they want me to do everything little thing they can charge my full coverage insurance for. All the departments are connected with the hospital so they all benefit. How do I maybe send an email to my Dr who is basically the head of the perinatal center that I need accommodations in a way like, I can only do what is medically necessary because going to appointments is a lot for me, I need patience, clear explanation of prescriptions/tests/procedures, and compassion because I feel like the medical staff is annoyed by me or think I'm being difficult when I'm asking questions or am hesitant to agree to things on the spot.
This is so tough. I feel for you! I am going through it, trying to manage my adhd without meds at 11wks pregnant and everyday is a struggle right now. I would be honest with the about how your ADHD is making you experience your pregnancy different than some of their neurotypical patients. My hope for you is that the doctors at your practice have a clear understanding of what ADHD is and how it affects those who have it. In the past I have struggled to find doctors that truly were equipped with the knowledge to support and treat me. I hope you’re doing better this week then you were 3 weeks ago. You are not alone!